All About Choosing Piano Schools And Teachers
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ngl2010:
Personally, I would not never scold or shout; for me being direct-to-point is more than enough (and peppered with sarcasm). In my opinion, Gordon Ramsay's style of teaching piano is increasingly become less relevant in this era, but I do acknowledge that it is a valid teaching approach.
I agree with DreamAurora. My son's teacher was extremely strict. My son's piano level progressed faster than his school friends thanks to this strict teacher. Without her, maybe he is still in lower grade. Although this teacher scolded and shouted at him until he cried countless times, the teacher did not kill his interest. She built strong technical skills and confidence instead.
Nowadays my son plays for relaxation whenever he is tired of studying for PSLE. I was so surprised when he asked me to find some new age songs for him to relax. To me, what I dreamed of him using piano as a way to relax has been achieved. I am not going to force him to take diploma. This is enough. Time to time my home is filled with nice songs that he plays :please: . Thanks to that very strict teacher.
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Dreamaurora:
Young children don't understand sarcasm. Earlier this year, my son's teacher was sarcastic to him but my son just looked blur. He did not get it. I feel it is better that he is scolded. In my opinion, sarcasm is more hurtful than scolding (I am a sensitive person so I take sarcasm more seriously than scolding ). There is meanness in sarcasm while scolding is straight forward. Just my 2-cents.
Personally, I would not never scold or shout; for me being direct-to-point is more than enough (and peppered with sarcasm). In my opinion, Gordon Ramsay's style of teaching piano is increasingly become less relevant in this era, but I do acknowledge that it is a valid teaching approach.ngl2010:
I agree with DreamAurora. My son's teacher was extremely strict. My son's piano level progressed faster than his school friends thanks to this strict teacher. Without her, maybe he is still in lower grade. Although this teacher scolded and shouted at him until he cried countless times, the teacher did not kill his interest. She built strong technical skills and confidence instead.
Nowadays my son plays for relaxation whenever he is tired of studying for PSLE. I was so surprised when he asked me to find some new age songs for him to relax. To me, what I dreamed of him using piano as a way to relax has been achieved. I am not going to force him to take diploma. This is enough. Time to time my home is filled with nice songs that he plays :please: . Thanks to that very strict teacher.
However, to each his own. -
ngl2010:
:please: how lovely! that is my hope too. I wait for my turn.
Nowadays my son plays for relaxation whenever he is tired of studying for PSLE. .. To me, what I dreamed of him using piano as a way to relax has been achieved. I am not going to force him to take diploma. This is enough. Time to time my home is filled with nice songs that he plays. -
ngl2010:
Speaking of hurtful comments, I feel the most damaging comments are those said without any constructive comments attached afterwards. I think it's fine from time to time to use some strong words/sarcasm/scolding to put across a point if student is exceedingly stubborn or delusional, but support and encouragement must be followed afterwards. It is a delicate balancing act of being firm but yet still loving.
Young children don't understand sarcasm. Earlier this year, my son's teacher was sarcastic to him but my son just looked blur. He did not get it. I feel it is better that he is scolded. In my opinion, sarcasm is more hurtful than scolding (I am a sensitive person so I take sarcasm more seriously than scolding ). There is meanness in sarcasm while scolding is straight forward. Just my 2-cents.
I had a teacher (a famous one) once who actually proclaimed in a lesson that I should stop learning piano because I started way too late and had formed too many bad habits and therefore I was unteachable. So, instead of analysing and helping me troubleshoot my problems, he just proclaimed I was basically hopeless; what an extremely encouraging teacher eh. Needless to say, the next day I requested for a change of teacher. -
Dreamaurora:
What???!!! So mean....
I had a teacher (a famous one) once who actually proclaimed in a lesson that I should stop learning piano because I started way too late and had formed too many bad habits and therefore I was unteachable. So, instead of analysing and helping me troubleshoot my problems, he just proclaimed I was basically hopeless; what an extremely encouraging teacher eh. Needless to say, the next day I requested for a change of teacher. -
ngl2010:
Well, to be fair to him, he didn't ask to teach me as the institution assigned him to me. He has a stellar track record producing well-known students and he is very selective when it comes to selecting his own private students, so I guess teaching me must had been way out of his comfort zone. Can't blame him though, I was quite terrible (but somehow still miraculously admitted into NAFA) thanks to my self-taught regime.
What???!!! So mean....Dreamaurora:
I had a teacher (a famous one) once who actually proclaimed in a lesson that I should stop learning piano because I started way too late and had formed too many bad habits and therefore I was unteachable. So, instead of analysing and helping me troubleshoot my problems, he just proclaimed I was basically hopeless; what an extremely encouraging teacher eh. Needless to say, the next day I requested for a change of teacher. -
Dear all,
I am going to start a paper analyzing various factors that contribute to poor learning and ways to rectify them. To this end, I am looking to accept students who have attempted grade 3 or above practical exam and scored either a fail or just slightly above pass (100-110 for ABRSM). If your children fit into this description or you know anyone who does, I will be more than happy to accept you and help you out. As a token of appreciation, I will provide discounted fees for 3 months worth of lessons.
Charles Wu -
Hi I need a female piano teacher for my 4yo girl who’s a piano noob. I’m residing in bedok . Pls pm me if u have any to recommend ! Thx!
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My horrible experience with Piano teacher.
My daughter is current preparing for Grade 4 exam, she has been changing teacher with this Music school due to the high turnover. For the past 3 months, I have been checking with this young, unexperienced teacher on the progress of my daughter. All remarks are \" ok. She is doing fine, need to practice.. etc\" Just last Sun, in the middle of the class, my dd message me that the teacher refuse to go in the classroom. I went straight to the school and he tells me he cannot cooperate with my daughter and do not want to be her \"slave\" anymore.
:yikes: :yikes: :yikes:
After much prompting, then I understand from my dd that he has been scolding her for playing the wrong notes but she insist that that is how the Principle have taught her during some replacement lesson. My dd is also not comfortable that the teacher is physically very close to her. What I notice is that he has been sitting or standing pretty close but I cannot tell if there is any physical contact. He has also been telling her that he doesn't care if she pass or fail her exam but if she fails, do not blame him cos she cannot play his expectation. etc etc..
I confronted the teacher on this and he request me to change teacher with immediate effect. Claiming that since this is the case, he do not think he is \"compatible\" to my dd. :mad: :mad: :mad: Even got the cheek to tell me to \"settle\" with the admin staff on the reimbursement of $ for that day.
I really doubt the music school actually screen their teachers. Not to mention, their fees are not cheap. I am definitely withdrawing my dd after 6yrs with them. Totally disappointed. -
gar_gar:
That sounds terrible. Are your daughter is still going ahead with the exam? I I imagine it will be awkward returning to the school for exam although you have withdrawn her.My horrible experience with Piano teacher.
My daughter is current preparing for Grade 4 exam, she has been changing teacher with this Music school due to the high turnover. For the past 3 months, I have been checking with this young, unexperienced teacher on the progress of my daughter. All remarks are \" ok. She is doing fine, need to practice.. etc\" Just last Sun, in the middle of the class, my dd message me that the teacher refuse to go in the classroom. I went straight to the school and he tells me he cannot cooperate with my daughter and do not want to be her \"slave\" anymore.
:yikes: :yikes: :yikes:
After much prompting, then I understand from my dd that he has been scolding her for playing the wrong notes but she insist that that is how the Principle have taught her during some replacement lesson. My dd is also not comfortable that the teacher is physically very close to her. What I notice is that he has been sitting or standing pretty close but I cannot tell if there is any physical contact. He has also been telling her that he doesn't care if she pass or fail her exam but if she fails, do not blame him cos she cannot play his expectation. etc etc..
I confronted the teacher on this and he request me to change teacher with immediate effect. Claiming that since this is the case, he do not think he is \"compatible\" to my dd. :mad: :mad: :mad: Even got the cheek to tell me to \"settle\" with the admin staff on the reimbursement of $ for that day.
I really doubt the music school actually screen their teachers. Not to mention, their fees are not cheap. I am definitely withdrawing my dd after 6yrs with them. Totally disappointed.