Zen 禅悟人生 -My way of Seeking a Balance life

[cfan]

跌倒了没人扶我

就自己爬起来
(YES!!)

难过了没人安慰
我就告诉自己要坚强
(YES!!)

哭了没人疼
我就自己擦眼泪
(再提醒自己没有必要为了无关紧要的人而哭!!!)

[janet88]

cfan:

跌倒了没人扶我

就自己爬起来
(YES!!)

难过了没人安慰
我就告诉自己要坚强
(YES!!)

哭了没人疼
我就自己擦眼泪
(再提醒自己没有必要为了无关紧要的人而哭!!!!!)

The last paragraph says it all. :goodpost:
Nobody has the right to make someone else upset.

[dolphinsiah]

Hi Cfan and Janet,


Have a Blessed Labour Day:



http://i40.tinypic.com/65nwjp.jpg\">

[janet88]

Thank you dolphinsiah.

[dolphinsiah]

Life is harder when you complicate the simple things.

So Keep it Simple...

http://i44.tinypic.com/5s30k.jpg\">



小时候幸福很简单、长大后简单很幸福!

[Sweet Joy]

Read the writings of Thich Nhat Hanh if you are into Zen.


Go to Google Books to get a sampling or borrow from the library.

Happy Reading!

[dolphinsiah]

Sweet Joy:

Read the writings of Thich Nhat Hanh if you are into Zen.


Go to Google Books to get a sampling or borrow from the library.

Happy Reading!

:thankyou: for your recommendation.

I find this lama teaching very interesting...

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c][/youtube]

[dolphinsiah]

Rishika Jain Inspirations :please:




A BEAUTIFUL STORY ~ Self Appraisal

*A little boy went to a telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store and dialed a number.
The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:

Boy : “Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?
Woman : (at the other end of the phone line) “I already have someone to cut my lawn.”
Boy : “Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price than the person who cuts your lawn now.”
Woman : I’m very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting my lawn.
Boy : (with more perseverance) “Lady, I’ll even sweep the floor and the stairs of your house for free.
Woman : No, thank you.

With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy.

Store Owner : “Son… I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job.”
Boy : “No thanks,
Store Owner : But you were really pleading for one.
Boy : No Sir, I was just checking my performance at
the job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady I was talking to!” *

** This is called self Appraisal”** Give your best and the world comes to you!!!!!

http://rishikajain.com/2012/06/15/inspirational-story-of-the-daybeautiful-storiespicturesself-appraisalwork/
share..inspire..tag...

[dolphinsiah]

一哭一笑，一辈子就这么没了[img]


http://i44.tinypic.com/2minmx.jpg\">

出生的时候自己哭是因为：我要在尘世间受苦了！！！
死的时候自己笑是因为：终于解脱出来了。

[dolphinsiah]

http://i42.tinypic.com/drdpgz.jpg\">


人生短暂，绝对不要浪费心思和精力在这些日常生活小事上！

不用去理会那些“无理取闹者”。

所以，仁爱对待与你以礼相待的人；

我们完全可以天天过着心里没有垃圾的日子！

To be Happy Everyday... :xedfingers: