All About Teaching Values

[JohnYeo]

[quote] I realized my mistake and talked to DD and told her my behavior is rude and unacceptable and that i shouldnt be doing that and she shouldnt be learning.[/quote]
Really respectable...it takes alot of courage to admit to their children that their parenting behaviour is wrong and seek forgiveness from the children too...wow... impressed...i did apologise to my DD1 when I did something wrong and I know how hard it is...

[Hiholow]

JohnYeo:

[quote] I realized my mistake and talked to DD and told her my behavior is rude and unacceptable and that i shouldnt be doing that and she shouldnt be learning.

Really respectable...it takes alot of courage to admit to their children that their parenting behaviour is wrong and seek forgiveness from the children too...wow... impressed...i did apologise to my DD1 when I did something wrong and I know how hard it is...[/quote]Yes it is!

[JohnYeo]

Hiholow:

JohnYeo:

[quote] I realized my mistake and talked to DD and told her my behavior is rude and unacceptable and that i shouldnt be doing that and she shouldnt be learning.

Really respectable...it takes alot of courage to admit to their children that their parenting behaviour is wrong and seek forgiveness from the children too...wow... impressed...i did apologise to my DD1 when I did something wrong and I know how hard it is...

Yes it is![/quote]So this is for you... :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah:
Well done!

[lovelydaughter]

Thread on Di Zi Gui (Standards for Being a Good Student and Child)


http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=23&t=16261&start=120


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linlaoshiclass:

Dear parents,

I find Di Zi Gui useful in teaching kids moral values.


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[Philosophy4Children]

Philosophy 4 Children (P4C) can impart good values as children are taught to voice their opinions nicely and not to judge. They listen to others and are given the opportunities to think deeper of their own set of beliefs during discussion times. If our kids are exposed to long periods of such discussions, they will be more mature in their thoughts and actions.


Research of P4C implemented in schools have consistently showed improvements in areas of maturity and reasoning in the children.

[quixation]

My name and my 6 year old daughter's name begins with the letter C, so i made it into the 4 Cs (at age 2-3) then 5 Cs, Age 4-5 and then now at 7 Cs (age 5-6).


Use it also to help her learn to spell those words and its meaning.. it worked well, my daughter always will use these words

The 7Cs for us are
Compassion
Considerate
Courage
Contentment
Charisma
Control
Confidence

anyone interested in the definition for kids can PM me...

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My girl reciting our 7Cs.

[ChiefKiasu]

quixation:

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My girl reciting our 7Cs.

Your girl is super-Cute! And yes, super Confident as well. And I just love the way she explains the word Control.

[buds]

Your girl has grown sooo much, quixation! Not just really smart n confident, a beauty as well. :celebrate: This is good sharing, love it! :please:


PS. No more new additions to your family?

[Nebbermind]

buds:

Your girl has grown sooo much, quixation! Not just really smart n confident, a beauty as well. :celebrate: This is good sharing, love it! :please:


PS. No more new additions to your family?

You wanna 'booking', is it?

[quixation]

buds:

Your girl has grown sooo much, quixation! Not just really smart n confident, a beauty as well. :celebrate: This is good sharing, love it! :please:


PS. No more new additions to your family?

I spent the last 6 years of my entire motherhood figuring out how to raise a useful person.. so no, no more additions, i gonna focus all on this one..i dont think it will be fair if i have another child and unable to give as much as i want to...

BTW, some parents PM me for help on other words starting the letters of their DD name... ey.. i not that good la.. but i can give you some idea of the explanation and meanings of our 7Cs, i wanted to instill these values then search dictionary to look for the words..

1. Compassion - Love & be kind to all
2. Contentment - be contented with what i have (I am happy!)
3. Control - you cant control what others do but i can control what i do
4. Courage - be brave to try, keep trying and don't give up
5. Considerate - think of others, be considerate
6. Charisma - be intelligently graceful to others.
6. Confidence - Believe in myself, I CAN DO IT!