University courses

[sharonkhoo]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2056110\" time=\"1642501407\" user_id=\"43981:

What mommies think abt local private U? Is it better to go overseas if given a chance then?

Depends on the child. Some will benefit from the independence; on the other hand, some may crash and burn if they are not ready for the responsibility. Of my 2 girls, one went overseas and one stayed in Singapore. The one who went overseas is the sensible, mature, responsible type - we were fairly sure (nothing is ever 100% certain) that she would cope well and thrive, and it would be a good growing experience for her. The other one we kept at home as we (and she) knew she couldn't manage on her own, in terms of just living, and studies.

In terms of quality of universities, many overseas universities are no better, and many are worse, than our local universities in standards. The only benefit may be that it gives the child an experience of independence (see above).

[sharonkhoo]

Imp75\" post_id=\"2056098\" time=\"1642499138\" user_id=\"2358:

At least your daughter has an idea. My girls are clueless and says \"we follow you and papa footsteps\" .....not smthg I am keen on Hahaha.....

Check the reasons why - maybe they like what they see about your work? That's not a bad thing. I wouldn't mind my kids following in my footsteps, as long as it's really what they like.

[Imp75]

slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2056125\" time=\"1642505010\" user_id=\"28674:

Check the reasons why - maybe they like what they see about your work? That's not a bad thing. I wouldn't mind my kids following in my footsteps, as long as it's really what they like.

I was telling my girls....other than the money.....there is really nothing much to shout about regarding the job.....

[sharonkhoo]

Imp75\" post_id=\"2056130\" time=\"1642505497\" user_id=\"2358:

I was telling my girls....other than the money.....there is really nothing much to shout about regarding the job.....

It may not be the best fit for you, but might be for them? Or maybe their priority is the money?

[Imp75]

slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2056136\" time=\"1642506234\" user_id=\"28674:

It may not be the best fit for you, but might be for them? Or maybe their priority is the money?

I think its bc they are clueless and perhaps its a safe choice.......

[MrsKiasu]

ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"2056118\" time=\"1642503545\" user_id=\"3:

Doing an overseas course is better, provided the overseas university is reputable. The experience is invaluable. Otherwise, better to do NUS/NTU or other local U.

What if it is just an avg Uni abroad..as, if unable to get into local U, the results would probably very avg..

.with dds somehow, since few years ago I was prepared to let dds study in local private if they couldn't make it..but as time goes by, I start to think am I doing them a disservice as I m letting them on their own as a result go to local pvt.. who knows they may feel like '2nd class' in terms of opportunities next time when they go out to work :sad:

[doodbug]

This issue of whether or not to send kids overseas for studies weighs heavily on me and I think it really boils down to each family’s values and perspectives. I have two kids - if I offer to support, I feel it has to be an offer to both, and not just one.


It will be a significant financial endeavour, and will have an impact on our retirement. (I guess every family has their own financial circumstance - for some families, it’s not an issue.) But in a way, we are already thankful that we can even consider the overseas option for the kids.

My current stance is that if the kids have tried hard, and are not able to get into the course of their choice in the local unis, I will send them overseas. I’d prefer that option than to have them settle for a uni course that they are not keen on.

[zac's mum]

My parents sent me to overseas Uni after I did badly for my A levels (too much time spent on BGR, passed promos but forced to drop one subject in JC2, still didnt recover fast enough).


I had a relatively relaxing time in the overseas uni, far more fun than the high-pressure study envt that my peers were experiencing in NUS. Scored relatively well and got a good job, good starting salary when I graduated.

My brother aced his A levels, got an overseas scholarship to an Ivy League Uni and my parents didnt have to pay a cent for his studies.

We are both living a happy life with jobs that we enjoy & pay well. I dont have any regrets taking a different path from him, but of course I’m eternally grateful to my parents that they made the decision to send me overseas.

[MrsKiasu]

Yea doodbug…on the financial side, it is not that easy for us too. That would mean dh has to continue to work hard…not that he mind but working with and without financial burden is different. We never talk abt going overseas actually…but just something in my mind.


Anyways when we first bought our 2nd home I always think that it is our way of saving money for our future kids…

[phtthp]

zac's mum\" post_id=\"2056152\" time=\"1642509840\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2056152 time=1642509840 user_id=53606]
My parents sent me to overseas Uni after I did badly for my A levels (too much time spent on BGR, passed promos but forced to drop one subject in JC2, still didnt recover fast enough).

I had a relatively relaxing time in the overseas uni, far more fun than the high-pressure study envt that my peers were experiencing in NUS. Scored relatively well and got a good job, good starting salary when I graduated.

My brother aced his A levels, got an overseas scholarship to an Ivy League Uni and my parents didnt have to pay a cent for his studies.

We are both living a happy life with jobs that we enjoy & pay well. I dont have any regrets taking a different path from him, but of course I’m eternally grateful to my parents that they made the decision to send me overseas.[/quote]

Hi Zac mom,

you went England, Scotland, USA or Australia, for your overseas studies ? Met your husband there ?