Me Time!

[MrsKiasu]

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900264\" time=\"1551324157\" user_id=\"43981:

dh wont say anything if home is dirty..but he will praise me when the home is clean and neat coz I ever told him people 1 child get 1 maid with elderly staying together some more I learn to sayang myself more now..I used to stretched myself to max, neighbor 1 lady handled 3 young kids without maid can, why I cannot...now I prefer not to think this way.

mrsks, I know we are in same league - so long uniform clean can already , no need super straight ..ahahhaha
yah . cannot be too hard on ourselves - but i am neat freak lei - i cant stand my ds table n shelves .

cloud: same as you . I scared helper with more problems to settle . my mama is not easy person to get along with esp with helper! i tried once before ..

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900267\" time=\"1551324567\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900264\" time=\"1551324157\" user_id=\"43981:

dh wont say anything if home is dirty..but he will praise me when the home is clean and neat coz I ever told him people 1 child get 1 maid with elderly staying together some more I learn to sayang myself more now..I used to stretched myself to max, neighbor 1 lady handled 3 young kids without maid can, why I cannot...now I prefer not to think this way.

mrsks, I know we are in same league - so long uniform clean can already , no need super straight ..ahahhaha
yah . cannot be too hard on ourselves - but i am neat freak lei - i cant stand my ds table n shelves .

cloud: same as you . I scared helper with more problems to settle . my mama is not easy person to get along with esp with helper! i tried once before ..

I am a bit better off lor coz my own working table is not neat too so many things I really can close my eyes one. No, I dont think I will ever get a helper when the kids are this big now..touch wood only when really needed at old age lor.

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900266\" time=\"1551324535\" user_id=\"43981:

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

agree temptation is always around - it is our own control
Eg avoic & No need to eat 1-1 lunch to the same opp sex daily . work OT together daily etc etc
not pretti , not humsom also can get involve in such damaging extra affairs -
Always Think of your lovely spouse, kids, family FIRST - dun allow evil to trash us -just for that moment of \"low class thrill\"

[starlight1968sg]

For FTWMs, wkends are ME time but filled with grocery shopping, cleaning, washing.


Both dh and I work in a predominantly male environment. I have no issue bec when I reach a certain age, my eyes and heart are shut to temptations.

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900269\" time=\"1551324828\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900266\" time=\"1551324535\" user_id=\"43981:

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

agree temptation is always around - it is our own control
Eg avoic & No need to eat 1-1 lunch to the same opp sex daily . work OT together daily etc etc
not pretti , not humsom also can get involve in such damaging extra affairs -
Always Think of your lovely spouse, kids, family FIRST - dun allow evil to trash us -just for that moment of \"low class thrill\"

I think generally need to avoid heart to heart talk too hor..

[MrsKiasu]

I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

[MrsKiasu]

starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1900272\" time=\"1551325381\" user_id=\"14025:

For FTWMs, wkends are ME time but filled with grocery shopping, cleaning, washing.

Both dh and I work in a predominantly male environment. I have no issue bec when I reach a certain age, my eyes and heart are shut to temptations.

I like grocery shopping, get some small happiness from seeing clean house after housework, find time in between to bake as need to wait for dough to rise..just simple life

[lee_yl]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900298\" time=\"1551335584\" user_id=\"43981:

I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

Who said that?
成龙？ :rotflmao:

[MrsKiasu]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900301\" time=\"1551336222\" user_id=\"17023:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900298\" time=\"1551335584\" user_id=\"43981:

I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

Who said that?
成龙？ :rotflmao:

:rotflmao: no la..lady say one..you would disagree too right..