In-law problems?

[janet88]

Hi cwc,

So the toddler is your BIL or SIL’s son ?
Not in your position, but can understand how frustrating it can be. If want to allow eating in the room, do it in your own house lah. I scream when I see my kids bringing cups into the room…even though it may be water, but if break the cup, have to vacuum and mop or else get cut.

[LOLMum]

i have seen some grandmums who are obviously above 60+ and yet has coloured hair (mind you, bright orange yellowish reddish), full make up, permed hair, bright red/orange lipsticks and wearing the loudest colour dresses and high heels. :salute: them because they bother to make an effort to look nice (sometimes in their opinion) and didnt limit themselves to dull coloured clothes like t-shirt, blouse and pants as many ladies their age do.


as i am always in t-shirt and jeans, hope to change my wardrobe cos i dont want to be wearing t-shirt and jeans when i am in my sixties.

[janet88]

LOLMum:

i have seen some grandmums who are obviously above 60+ and yet has coloured hair (mind you, bright orange yellowish reddish), full make up, permed hair, bright red/orange lipsticks and wearing the loudest colour dresses and high heels. :salute: them because they bother to make an effort to look nice (sometimes in their opinion) and didnt limit themselves to dull coloured clothes like t-shirt, blouse and pants as many ladies their age do.


as i am always in t-shirt and jeans, hope to change my wardrobe cos i dont want to be wearing t-shirt and jeans when i am in my sixties.

I hope to change my wardrobe when kids are bigger. I want to age gracefully.

[janet88]

jessicawongcs:

we should open a thread on how to age gracefully

I hope to age like The GOLDEN GIRLS.

Anyway, I understand hubby's parents returning this morn...well, they will be spending the next few weeks adjusting. No chance of them ever going to San Francisco again.
Don't know what nonsense they will be up to after returning. Anyway, I couldn't be bothered at least not for next 1 month.

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jessicawongcs:

janet_lee88:

[quote=\"jessicawongcs\"]we should open a thread on how to age gracefully

I hope to age like The GOLDEN GIRLS.

Anyway, I understand hubby's parents returning this morn...well, they will be spending the next few weeks adjusting. No chance of them ever going to San Francisco again.
Don't know what nonsense they will be up to after returning. Anyway, I couldn't be bothered at least not for next 1 month.

:xedfingers: nothing will happen lah, just see no evil
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Yes, I want to age gracefully too....

Janet,
think you must be dreading the day......but from what I see, you have attained 慧根，看开了

Jessica, evil can come knocking....kekeke....like mine will knock at my face everyday.....

[janet88]

I dread the day too…even though I don’t really bother much about them, but with them back here, it means they will produce some noise sooner or later.


In order to age gracefully, I must adopt a modern mindset when I become a MIL. Keep myself busy so as not to develop dementia too fast and don’t involve in children’s affairs.

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jessicawongcs:

cwc:

Jessica, evil can come knocking....kekeke....like mine will knock at my face everyday.....

ah... that's why see no evil, hear no evil and say no evil

To be able to do that, I probably resting in peace liao :lol:
Have been trying, still trying......

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jessicawongcs:

cwc:

[quote=\"jessicawongcs\"]
ah... that's why see no evil, hear no evil and say no evil

To be able to do that, I probably resting in peace liao :lol:
Have been trying, still trying......

at least u tried ur best [/quote]Sigh....but sometimes really really xianzzzz of their presence. As if not enough, becos' of them gotta hire maid....then with maid, another set of problem. Very xian.

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jessicawongcs:

cwc:

Sigh....but sometimes really really xianzzzz of their presence. As if not enough, becos' of them gotta hire maid....then with maid, another set of problem. Very xian.

well, my problem is not lies with in-laws but with my parents. they spoilt DS alot till we have to put DS in childcare. nothing is prefect, we just do our best to our children can le

ha ha ha....then for the best of my children, I should not let them stay with me :lol: just feeling extra xianzzzz now....venting only

[janet88]

My parents don't really spoil the kids but will scold them when they are naughty...they don't side when discipline is enforced.


Hi cwc,
2 of them cause enough problems...another maid added on means 3 sets of PROBLEMS. :?: