In-law problems?

[LOLMum]

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She hang her USED sanitary pad at the toilet door knob for the whole day. [/quote]


:faint:

if just once or twice well maybe forgetful but if this is a habit, :siao:

[janet88]

jessicawongcs:

sall:

Let me tell you something hubby's sister did that caused me to puke even more. She hang her USED sanitary pad at the toilet door knob for the whole day. She doesn't wash her socks after every use. Once I saw her smelling her worn socks to check whether can wear again or not. :!:

i ever had a frd who dont wash her stained underwear and put it in the toilet, found out abt it when we shared room in a hotel :x

Where friend is concerned, can't say anything. But that hubby's sister is terrible...how can she throw her undies into washing machine ? Old enough to wash herself. This thing definitely her mother never teach.

[mama_g]

cwc:

mama_g:

For my case, my mil will 'chase' us back home if happen that we are disciplining the kids. Very drama de... will say things like she cant bear to see us disciplining kids, kids will outgrown their bad behaviour.... so all kids no need to be discipline as they will outgrown on their own??? Make no sense to me at all

yah.....a bit weird leh :shock: how can let them outgrow....so if never discipline, just let them be? Can't imagine. But hey....your hubby is the outcome of same teaching

Sometimes I dilemma too....while we yak over trouble with MIL, it's their son we have married....so ironical :lol:

Good point, but i indeed dont have good experience and views on her 'children' aka DH's elder sister and brother.... As for DH.. bo bian la... my \"ah lau\" mah... when fate knocks on the door..how to escape?

In their family, there are no family bonding, no meals, no outing , no bdae celebrations, MIL favours obviously on the elder bro, very often will hear her say she called her elder son but never heard her saying she call her elder doter... Tat day i asked her... both ur son and doter are 'married out', seldom come home... why u only call ur son, never heard u call ur doter de?? This is her up bringing???

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mama_g:

cwc:

[quote=\"mama_g\"]For my case, my mil will 'chase' us back home if happen that we are disciplining the kids. Very drama de... will say things like she cant bear to see us disciplining kids, kids will outgrown their bad behaviour.... so all kids no need to be discipline as they will outgrown on their own??? Make no sense to me at all

yah.....a bit weird leh :shock: how can let them outgrow....so if never discipline, just let them be? Can't imagine. But hey....your hubby is the outcome of same teaching

Sometimes I dilemma too....while we yak over trouble with MIL, it's their son we have married....so ironical :lol:

Good point, but i indeed dont have good experience and views on her 'children' aka DH's elder sister and brother.... As for DH.. bo bian la... my \"ah lau\" mah... when fate knocks on the door..how to escape?

In their family, there are no family bonding, no meals, no outing , no bdae celebrations, MIL favours obviously on the elder bro, very often will hear her say she called her elder son but never heard her saying she call her elder doter... Tat day i asked her... both ur son and doter are 'married out', seldom come home... why u only call ur son, never heard u call ur doter de?? This is her up bringing???[/quote]You stirring SHIT ?!?!
I do that sometimes too....MIL damn biased towards the youngest son. Everything also scott-free.

Recently, I told MIL off....the most filial, most patient and most tolerant and accommodating son he's now very busy cos' have young toddler to take care. Yet you bug him on small little stuff and scold him for not helping u to run errands when he always try his best. The most free one (no kid, have time for dog but not you)....you let him off over everything, praise him over everything unconditionally. What are you thinking??? Ask yourself & I walk off

[janet88]

Hi cwc,

She gave eldest SIL and myself a damn hard time before we got married.
For youngest son, she doesn’t involve and that fella goes scot free for everything. So that fella is a damn spoilt brat and totally lacks manners.

[sall]

LOLMum:

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She hang her USED sanitary pad at the toilet door knob for the whole day.

:faint:

if just once or twice well maybe forgetful but if this is a habit, :siao:[/quote]
She used the toilet and will be able to see the display on the door knob. But she did not throw it away. 99.9% nutcase. And the parents were ok with that. All nutcase.

[Angelight]

janet, your spoilt BIL sounds like mine too. MIL also spoilt him and his wife rotten, as a result the 2 of them have no respect or regards for DH (his bro) and me. :roll:

janet_lee88:

Hi cwc,
She gave eldest SIL and myself a damn hard time before we got married.
For youngest son, she doesn't involve and that fella goes scot free for everything. So that fella is a damn spoilt brat and totally lacks manners.

[BeContented]

sall:

LOLMum:

She hang her USED sanitary pad at the toilet door knob for the whole day.
:faint:

if just once or twice well maybe forgetful but if this is a habit, :siao:

She used the toilet and will be able to see the display on the door knob. But she did not throw it away. 99.9% nutcase. And the parents were ok with that. All nutcase.

Agree......it's totally unacceptable. Think also wanna puck!!! :x

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Angelight:

janet, your spoilt BIL sounds like mine too. MIL also spoilt him and his wife rotten, as a result the 2 of them have no respect or regards for DH (his bro) and me. :roll:

janet_lee88:

Hi cwc,
She gave eldest SIL and myself a damn hard time before we got married.
For youngest son, she doesn't involve and that fella goes scot free for everything. So that fella is a damn spoilt brat and totally lacks manners.

Hey, same fate here. But sometimes I think the 'resentment' arose all becos' of MIL mishandling of the situation.

[sall]

One thing they never learn is basic hygiene. This woman who displays her used sanitary pad is a NURSE.