In-law problems?
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I do not want any confrontation with her either…so it’s arms length as much as possible. What’s the point of stating facts with her and have her sobbing and wailing like as though I beat her up ??? Then I become the biggest 罪人. No thanks.
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janet_lee88:
I do not want any confrontation with her either...so it's arms length as much as possible. What's the point of stating facts with her and have her sobbing and wailing like as though I beat her up ??? Then I become the biggest 罪人. No thanks.
Sometimes, that is the only way to do it. Especially when people kowtow for forgiveness for no reason. So drama. Makes my hair stand. Thank goodness this has never happened to me!! -
I will be super happy if I don’t have to put up their endless problems…stressed and busy enough and totally not interested in their stupid, endless problems.
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Chenonceau:
I hate MIL's crocodile tears. My MIL one-time APOLOGISED to me in front of everybody said sorry she could not eat seafood because her finger was cut so cannot eat \"poisonous\" seafood. I had suggested going to a seafood restaurant which my PIL went a few times already so I thought it was like a family restaurant to them should be well-received for her birthday celebration. Turned out she was pissed because she mentioned before her finger was a bit cut but I forgot. She APOLOGISED to me said she was sorry to disappoint ME because she knew I like to eat crab. :mad: :mad: :mad:janet_lee88:
I do not want any confrontation with her either...so it's arms length as much as possible. What's the point of stating facts with her and have her sobbing and wailing like as though I beat her up ??? Then I become the biggest 罪人. No thanks.
Sometimes, that is the only way to do it. Especially when people kowtow for forgiveness for no reason. So drama. Makes my hair stand. Thank goodness this has never happened to me!!
In case you did not get my drift - anyone heard her would think that I was the most selfish person in the world, without a thought for my MIL. To suggest a SEAFOOD restaurant on my MIL's birthday KNOWING that her finger was cut and she should avoid seafood. Just because I like to eat seafood myself! :stupid:
I just plain forgot...the sly old one... :mad:
A couple more of such incidents whereby she put me in a very bad light. I told her plainly she has mistaken me and told her: \"You think very badly of me.\" After that I think she backed off and stop her sarcastic remarks and crocodile tears. -
Hubby’s insensitive and brainless sister asked her brothers to get lawyer to assess parents assets. Can you imagine that? It’s plain obvious her angmoh husband brainwashed her.
That cheapskate is supposed to be a dentist and he is eyeing a piece of the 3 room flat. Eldest son (hubby’s brother) got so mad and shot his stupid sister a nasty email to leave the flat alone. Omg, that stupid woman wants a will written claiming that parents are forgetful. She wants division of assets. -
janet_lee88:
:yikes:Hubby's insensitive and brainless sister asked her brothers to get lawyer to assess parents assets. Can you imagine that? It's plain obvious her angmoh husband brainwashed her.
That cheapskate is supposed to be a dentist and he is eyeing a piece of the 3 room flat. Eldest son (hubby's brother) got so mad and shot his stupid sister a nasty email to leave the flat alone. Omg, that stupid woman wants a will written claiming that parents are forgetful. She wants division of assets. -
Chenonceau,
Has your MIL came over liao? Remembered you mentioned about MIL coming over soon… -
DesertWind:
Funny how MIL think we are blind to smear campaigns aimed at us.
A couple more of such incidents whereby she put me in a very bad light. I told her plainly she has mistaken me and told her: \"You think very badly of me.\" After that I think she backed off and stop her sarcastic remarks and crocodile tears. -
BeContented:
Not yet. Next month. :nailbite: :nailbite: :nailbite:Chenonceau,
Has your MIL came over liao? Remembered you mentioned about MIL coming over soon....... -
Chenonceau:
You too kerna? Anyway, long story right, better don't start..ke..ke..ke..
Funny how MIL think we are blind to smear campaigns aimed at us.DesertWind:
A couple more of such incidents whereby she put me in a very bad light. I told her plainly she has mistaken me and told her: \"You think very badly of me.\" After that I think she backed off and stop her sarcastic remarks and crocodile tears.
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