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[Funx3]

smartmummy:

yes,yes very true.We r facing now.I have a 9yo.


I just asked him to stop otherwise its like go round and round and never stop,waste of time.I told him cannot argue with parents.he said I can't reply to ur qn.one day he said \"I am a living thing and I can respond to changes\".That time he was studying about living thing.

Ha Ha ....
Guess My Kids R More \"Polite\" ....
during their Primary years, they Will just Listen Quiet-ly to what I Say ....
But Upon My Finish Talking, they Will Just As \"Polite-ly\" Resume what they Were Doing B4 ....

[smartmummy]

FunX3!

Any tips?

[ectanz]

puff:

cwc:

[quote=\"kids_r_innocent\"]Personally I feel tat child between 0-2/3 year old is easier to take care in terms of less talk n dun have to handle their tantrums. For 3-7 year old, they r more independent bt more tantrums n arguments. As for 7yrs old, then I am not sure as my children have yet to reach tat stage!

You will know when they start --
'i dun like/want'
'why cannot?'
'but my friend .....'
'who & who said ....' :frustrated:
or worse, ignore & give you that I dun care / I'm not going to give in LOOK :mad: :rant:

n not forgetting my DD favorite line ' not fair.....'[/quote]Not to forger 'WAIT'. I hv heard this for more than 10 times daily. Asked my dd1 to take shower after her ccc, she replied WAIT. Asked her to do homework, WAIT is her reply.. Asked her to eat dinner, WAIT again... Asked her to brush her teeth, WAIT....

[puff]

When I ask DD to eat she say 'wait'... I will tell her I got no time to wait ( coz I need to wash up after she finish eating)

Reason y she need to wait for me n I cannot wait for her is because I am busier than her

[janet88]

I dread the stage when they kept asking 'WHY' ? There is no end of WHYS...after giving them an answer, you know what they will ask next :nailbite: My son at 11 years old is still capable of telling me 'not fair'...why 妹妹 can have it and I can't :faint:


Hubby worked from home yesterday...I 'gave him' a rare opportunity of facing kids' endless quarrels and whining. By dinner time, I told him that's the reason why I'm too tired to talk by the end of the day...my voice box needs a break.

[BeContented]

janet_lee88:

I dread the stage when they kept asking 'WHY' ? There is no end of WHYS...after giving them an answer, you know what they will ask next :nailbite: My son at 11 years old is still capable of telling me 'not fair'...why 妹妹 can have it and I can't :faint:


Hubby worked from home yesterday...I 'gave him' a rare opportunity of facing kids' endless quarrels and whining. By dinner time, I told him that's the reason why I'm too tired to talk by the end of the day...my voice box needs a break.

Hmmmm, I dunno if the mommies support this.....but I am unable to apply the 爱的教育 like some of my friends. I do :spank: on serious matters & when the kids refused to listen after numerous warnings....... :skeptical:

[Funx3]

smartmummy:

FunX3!

Any tips?

Ha Ha ....
Not So Much On Tips, but they have Figured out that the Sooner Mum and Dad Vent out their Frustration, the Faster they Can Continue their Gaming, etc ....
And The Fastest Way is to Keep Quiet, and Don't Talk Back ....


Actually just Like Phankao mentioned, our Kids do listen to us and take our advice ....
Like .... 10% of the Time?
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[smartmummy]

Funx3:

smartmummy:

FunX3!

Any tips?

Ha Ha ....
Not So Much On Tips, but they have Figured out that the Sooner Mum and Dad Vent out their Frustration, the Faster they Can Continue their Gaming, etc ....
And The Fastest Way is to Keep Quiet, and Don't Talk Back ....


Actually just Like Phankao mentioned, our Kids do listen to us and take our advice ....
Like .... 10% of the Time?
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

I think u r lucky mummy.thanks for the tips.

[sleepy]

Funx3:

Ha Ha ....

Not So Much On Tips, but they have Figured out that the Sooner Mum and Dad Vent out their Frustration, the Faster they Can Continue their Gaming, etc ....
And The Fastest Way is to Keep Quiet, and Don't Talk Back ....

Yes yes, I'm beginning to notice this new trend in my dd1 too. Maybe she's now older so become slightly wiser, finally can catch my pattern.

After I yak yak yak for 7 to 8 minutes and she didn't respond, not used to the complete silence, I asked her why is she so quiet? From her past track record, if I utter one sentence, she should theoretically rebute with 3 sentences.

She said she expected to be scolded so just let me vent. I got over it very quickly anyway :faint:

[jtparent]

Hi,


have been sahm for 2years. felt bored when ds in school in the am. Thinking of earning some pocket $$ as well as spend time wisely. Do anyone think of this when ds attend pri school. Chance upon a website - WorkFromHomeITJobs.com. Any mummies try before? Or any PT AM jobs to share?

TIA