All About Bullying
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perhaps boys should learn some wushu or martial arts, for self defence.
can’t stand those bully that stand at the entrance of the school gate after school dismiss, waiting to bully the younger children. -
I think bullies are in all schools, be it well known or notorious schools. We just have to educate our child well and have a good talk with them at least twice a week.
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I think it is best to sign up your kids with karate or teach them some self-defense. It is not to fight with others but at least your child could learn to defend himself.
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no matter the reason for the bullying, be it insecurity or what nothing of this unfair capacity should be borne by our child. as parents we should at least demand for an apology from the bully to our child as nissin mentioned and maybe detention after school for the bully as well so that punishment is meted out and serves as warning to other students as well.
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Its indeed troubling when u heard that your DS or DD bullied in school… My DS had this problem when he is in P1. He came home with bruises on his legs and I thought it was due to his activeness. You know, boys being boys. But as i chatted with him, he told be that there are some people for will kick him on his legs during recess time…
We spoke with the form teacher because i also fear that DS have misbehaved in the 1st place. While the teacher reassured me after ‘interviewing’ the students involve that the kids are being mischevious and somehow targetted my DS… They apologised and we moved on. But such incidents don’t stop, it still happens with other students though… It became a learning process for DS and us parents on how to handle to such situations… Till today, we are still learning… -
this may not be agreeable to some, but if the child is being bullied time and again, fighting back may be the way.
sometimes, the bully is a coward. If the victim stands up to him/her, the bully will learn the lesson that this kid can and will fight back. -
bullying may not be physical
it can be verbal, or isolation. -
As it stands now, the kind of bully that my DS experienced is physical & I am so worried that he is the verbal bully…
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what should i do? fetched my p3 girl from sch today and she told me her classmates, 1 sitting on her left, n 1 on her right, punched her in the face. both were females. she wanted to stand up and tell the teacher, this incident happened in class, but the girl hold her down and tell her not to.
And these were the two girls that broke her correction tape, eraser… drew on her hand…
feedback to the teacher, and he said he will talk to them. so thats it? im so worried! -
Request for your girl to change seats. It shouldn’t be too difficult for the teacher. If the two students next to her are very mischievous, he should place them further apart.
Some students are bold enough to stand up for themselves. I have one student who hits back at the boys who try to bully her. I don’t condone getting into fights, but whenever the teacher’s disciplinary measures fail, she manages to prevent the bullies from getting to her using her own methods. She also scolds the bullies on behalf of the teacher.
For students who are not so bold, however, the next best alternative is to tell the teacher to let them sit further apart and ask the bullied students to make more friends in class. In the school, there is strength in numbers. Bullies normally pick on those who have fewer friends.
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