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    • TokidokiT Offline
      Tokidoki
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      poppy15:
      ilynn:

      yeah, nxt tue is my BIG DAY. :dancing:


      :evil: ur BIG DAY sounds like ur wedding day instead... :laugh: :siam:

      no choice, only 1 kid, all focus on him. very happy to see him reach a new milestone. :lol:

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      • TokidokiT Offline
        Tokidoki
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        Kissgurami:
        ilynn:

        LeeTaiTai, did ur mum ever mention what amt she wish to get? sometime they may compare with what your cousins give to ur aunt etc. i'm not sure if my mum compares, but my cousins did check with me how much i give!


        i give my mum $800 per mth, no maid given to her. i din reduced since i send DS to CC. currently my mum only help cooked dinner for our family on wkdays nite. DS go full day CC.

        wow... $800 is alot and with CC , my mum did compare with her friends.. some were giving $1000 which I can't afford plus vacations lol

        b4 i give birth, gave her $500. so top up $300 aft DS is born. DH take care of the CC fee. i can't afford allowances for them when they go holiday. luckily i got 3 other working siblings to take care of their entertainment expenses.

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          MintyMin
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          poppy15:
          Kissgurami:

          http://i52.tinypic.com/j60a50.jpg\">


          ilynn will be first to completion! hehehe

          wow kissgurami, so nice of u to tabulate this table.... :salute:


          Thanks Kissgurami for tabulating for us!!! 💋

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            MintyMin
            last edited by

            Kissgurami:
            ilynn:

            LeeTaiTai, did ur mum ever mention what amt she wish to get? sometime they may compare with what your cousins give to ur aunt etc. i'm not sure if my mum compares, but my cousins did check with me how much i give!


            i give my mum $800 per mth, no maid given to her. i din reduced since i send DS to CC. currently my mum only help cooked dinner for our family on wkdays nite. DS go full day CC.

            wow... $800 is alot and with CC , my mum did compare with her friends.. some were giving $1000 which I can't afford plus vacations lol


            :yikes: $800 is alot, i used to give her tat amt when i only have DS, but expenses goes up as we have more kids n it cut down to half esp when we have to put all 3 in CC.. not cheap leh.. plus upgraded hse..

            Mum cooks at my plc.. so basically wat she bot is for my family n my sis n dad n her consumption too.. The sore part is, she make comparison btw my elder sis n me.. abt hw generous elder sis is, coz she paid for mum n dad's holidays to msia, meals, etc n give allowances.. while i only pay for the mthly mkting.. :sad:

            Well, for all ur info, elder sis is not married..

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              tigger88
              last edited by

              hey hey…how is everyone? TGLF!

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                poppy15
                last edited by

                tigger... ermm.... its TGIF... :laugh:

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                • KissguramiK Offline
                  Kissgurami
                  last edited by

                  celtricia:


                  Mum cooks at my plc.. so basically wat she bot is for my family n my sis n dad n her consumption too.. The sore part is, she make comparison btw my elder sis n me.. abt hw generous elder sis is, coz she paid for mum n dad's holidays to msia, meals, etc n give allowances.. while i only pay for the mthly mkting.. :sad:

                  Well, for all ur info, elder sis is not married..
                  Ya... i am the only child so no siblings ... my mum's friends are more well off or has many kids.. so she compares ALOT :sad:

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                  • TokidokiT Offline
                    Tokidoki
                    last edited by

                    celtricia:
                    :yikes: $800 is alot, i used to give her tat amt when i only have DS, but expenses goes up as we have more kids n it cut down to half esp when we have to put all 3 in CC.. not cheap leh.. plus upgraded hse..


                    Mum cooks at my plc.. so basically wat she bot is for my family n my sis n dad n her consumption too.. The sore part is, she make comparison btw my elder sis n me.. abt hw generous elder sis is, coz she paid for mum n dad's holidays to msia, meals, etc n give allowances.. while i only pay for the mthly mkting.. :sad:

                    Well, for all ur info, elder sis is not married..
                    i only got 1 kid mah. :evil: yah, all my 3 siblings still single. my sis always sponsor their trip and even bring them along. if she nvr join them, she will give them $ to spend. so far my mum nvr compare in front of me. guess she knows i'm a big spender, cannot expect too much. :rotflmao:

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                      Castle House
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                      My kids are taken off by MIL... I didn't really give her any allowance.. hb will settle with her.. :boogie:

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                      • KissguramiK Offline
                        Kissgurami
                        last edited by

                        Castle House:
                        My kids are taken off by MIL... I didn't really give her any allowance.. hb will settle with her.. :boogie:

                        Nice!!!!

                        so everyone TGIF lunch?

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