Club FTWM

[DesertWind]

minniemom:

hi


me a newbie & a FTWM, DD at K2 & DS at terrible 2.
By the way, how do u all cope with both work & household chores?? I feel exhausted easily now tht DS is growing naughtier.

Hi Minniemom,

How about getting part-time help? Those \"zhong dian nu yong\" at about SGD10 per hour? They work minimum 3 hours each time. I used one before for couple of years and she came in once a week to vacuum, mop, wash toilets and also to iron hubby's clothes. Of course that time we have no kid yet. After my DS was born, I got a full-time maid. How to cope if FTWM but no helper at home....?

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[DesertWind]

Luvkid:

Dun feel guilty over this. U r fulfilling your best for being responsible mummy. give yourseld a pat on your back....The midnite wake up cries & feeding time can be really hectic, but remember it will be over soon.....

Time passes fast, in a wink, your son will be easier to handle, just bear with it, get over with it, dun blame yourself.......You r already doing your best for him now :love: Dun worry, his heart will be with you :love:

Hi Luvkid!

I like what you have shared, very encouraging to me too thank you very much!


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[Bimbotic]

My first attempt...not sure if I am posting it correctly or not :roll: ... but i am a FTWM of DD aged 7.5 yrs old in p2.

[beebeemum]

Hihi,


I am new and reporting here.
Happy FTWM with 2 DDs.

[DesertWind]

Bimbotic:

My first attempt...not sure if I am posting it correctly or not :roll: ... but i am a FTWM of DD aged 7.5 yrs old in p2.

Hi Bimbotic,
:welcome:

[DesertWind]

beebeemum:

Hihi,


I am new and reporting here.
Happy FTWM with 2 DDs.

Hello beebeemum!
:welcome:
Happy to hear that you are happy! Do share with us more about the happy bits so that we can be encouraged too!
:celebrate:

[muskaka]

Hi hi, I’m new in here…read somewhere there’s a rule that I need to report here before I post in other thread.

[Luvkid]

muskaka:

Hi hi, I'm new in here..read somewhere there's a rule that I need to report here before I post in other thread.

Hi muskaka,

The \"compulsory\" or rather i would call it as self intro thread is \"NEWBIE\" where u will have create your own NEW TOPIC, introduce yourself and something u want to share, just a simple intro will do.

Anyway, welcome u to this BIG family of KSP and our Club FTWM!! :celebrate: See u around \"here\"!!

:welcome:

[lims]

Hi All FTWMssss


Reporting reporting :

Wow took me soooooo long finally my turn to post le heee coz i read fm the very 1st post til the last one ...ok being a mum is confirmed NOT easy de...Am a FTWM tooo

I have 4 kids.

DD - 13
DD - 11
DS - 5 - as of aug
DD - 3 - next wed


Two elder girls with thier father (my ex husband) ...Two younger ones with me n current DH.

Aiya...i lagi more worst then all mummies leh...my two elder ones ...i feel so terrible..coz me not beside them ...i have no maid juz part time to do all housework...no time to cook at home so EAT out daily

Two younger ones at CC ,nanny will pick them up fm CC bathe them and eat there tooo so my expenses very very high lor

i need to do a lot of planning ahead if i were to meet my two kids therefore i choose to work near where they stay in order to meet them as n when i have the time even if is an hour

My PIL dun noe all these as i need to keep them in the dark .(DH say dun need to tell as thier tinking SURE cannot accept de) so now since my two younger kids noes how to talk ..am NOT allow to bring my TWO elder one home anymore sob sob

To make things worse ...if i need to meet them i need to make sure there is sombody to look after the two young ones.. else cannot meet

Now even worse DH got shift work ..so basically i take care of them by myself ...DH will help when he is off n as n when la BUT how much can he do...?

Mummies ...seee am still surviving here so dun give up wor...i have shorten my story ...have gone thru so much ..... :love:

JIA YOU ALL FTWM... :celebrate:

[DesertWind]

lims:

Wow took me soooooo long finally my turn to post le heee coz i read fm the very 1st post til the last one ...ok being a mum is confirmed NOT easy de...Am a FTWM tooo


Mummies ...seee am still surviving here so dun give up wor...i have shorten my story ...have gone thru so much ..... :love:

JIA YOU ALL FTWM... :celebrate:

Hi lims!
:welcome:

And JIA YOU too! Thanks for sharing! You serious ah? Read from 1st post till last one?
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