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[Kissgurami]

Tokidoki:

Kissgurami:

6 years, wear diaper not tiring + expensive?

1 nite only 1 pc, still ok. 50cents for undisturbed sleep. priceless. :rotflmao:

:spank: :rotflmao: is your DS going CC?

i had help from CC :siam: if not the transition would be painful...

[MintyMin]

All 3 kiddos slp wif helper..


DD2 & helper each has a single bed to slp.. while DD1 & Ds slp on 1 queen size bed..

So if DD1 wet bed.. DS not bed to slp liao.. n i will use lots of cloth to dry up the bed.. (wonder y DD1 aws wet the part where the protector sheet is not covered! :slapshead: ) But the 2 times.. i manage to get DS to move to another side of the bed so as nt to lie on the pee part

1st time on Sunday morning.. DD1 came running to our room telling her she wet the bed.. I did all the cleaning up my own..

2nd time, which is tis morning.. DD1 again came knocking on my door.. again i did the cleaning up on my own..

1st time.. helper din even realised.. n slept thru..
2nd time.. helper woke up.. but sat there look at me clean me.. :roll:

She even mentioned to my mum b4, tat if she is woken up by them, for any reason at all.. she can't get bak to slp..

Tis morning i ask DD1, y she din ask 'auntie' to help.. she said becoz 'auntie' will scold her.. n there's even an incident where 'auntie' purposely squeeze her wrist area so tightly tat there's red mark.. seen by my mum.. mum happened to drop by..

:sad: now wondering if i shld change helper.. she's only wif me for 6mths..

[Tokidoki]

Kissgurami:

Tokidoki:

[quote=\"Kissgurami\"]6 years, wear diaper not tiring + expensive?

1 nite only 1 pc, still ok. 50cents for undisturbed sleep. priceless. :rotflmao:

:spank: :rotflmao: is your DS going CC?

i had help from CC :siam: if not the transition would be painful...[/quote]now only nite wearing diaper. daytime he quit since 18 mths old. he's able to go diaperless during nap in CC. but that's bcoz teacher control their water intake. he's not confident he can do it at hm, and also i can't stop him from drinking water b4 he sleep.

[Kissgurami]

No helper so i will change on my own accompanied with loads of :rant: , from articles, they said shouldn't :rant: but man, at that particular time when it happens, gosh , can't help but to :rant:


tokidoki, 250ml before sleeping is a recipe for peeing at night.. I tend to get them to pee before bed time and only half a mug of water...

[Tokidoki]

MintyMin:

All 3 kiddos slp wif helper..


DD2 & helper each has a single bed to slp.. while DD1 & Ds slp on 1 queen size bed..

So if DD1 wet bed.. DS not bed to slp liao.. n i will use lots of cloth to dry up the bed.. (wonder y DD1 aws wet the part where the protector sheet is not covered! :slapshead: ) But the 2 times.. i manage to get DS to move to another side of the bed so as nt to lie on the pee part

1st time on Sunday morning.. DD1 came running to our room telling her she wet the bed.. I did all the cleaning up my own..

2nd time, which is tis morning.. DD1 again came knocking on my door.. again i did the cleaning up on my own..

1st time.. helper din even realised.. n slept thru..
2nd time.. helper woke up.. but sat there look at me clean me.. :roll:

She even mentioned to my mum b4, tat if she is woken up by them, for any reason at all.. she can't get bak to slp..

Tis morning i ask DD1, y she din ask 'auntie' to help.. she said becoz 'auntie' will scold her.. n there's even an incident where 'auntie' purposely squeeze her wrist area so tightly tat there's red mark.. seen by my mum.. mum happened to drop by..

:sad: now wondering if i shld change helper.. she's only wif me for 6mths..

wow, ur helper showing signs of abuse leh. :shock:

luckily ur DD1 is able to tell u what happen. maybe give warning to her and see if she ever do it again.

[MintyMin]

All the training of diaperless starts from young… go first during noon naps… den can slowly transit to night…


Yes i agree with kiss… the 250ml of water is the result of peeing in the night…

[Tokidoki]

Kissgurami:

No helper so i will change on my own accompanied with loads of :rant: , from articles, they said shouldn't :rant: but man, at that particular time when it happens, gosh , can't help but to :rant:


tokidoki, 250ml before sleeping is a recipe for peeing at night.. I tend to get them to pee before bed time and only half a mug of water...

prob is he drinks it aft he pee. :rant: if dun give him, will whine & whine he's so thirsty.

[MintyMin]

Tokidoki:

MintyMin:

All 3 kiddos slp wif helper..


DD2 & helper each has a single bed to slp.. while DD1 & Ds slp on 1 queen size bed..

So if DD1 wet bed.. DS not bed to slp liao.. n i will use lots of cloth to dry up the bed.. (wonder y DD1 aws wet the part where the protector sheet is not covered! :slapshead: ) But the 2 times.. i manage to get DS to move to another side of the bed so as nt to lie on the pee part

1st time on Sunday morning.. DD1 came running to our room telling her she wet the bed.. I did all the cleaning up my own..

2nd time, which is tis morning.. DD1 again came knocking on my door.. again i did the cleaning up on my own..

1st time.. helper din even realised.. n slept thru..
2nd time.. helper woke up.. but sat there look at me clean me.. :roll:

She even mentioned to my mum b4, tat if she is woken up by them, for any reason at all.. she can't get bak to slp..

Tis morning i ask DD1, y she din ask 'auntie' to help.. she said becoz 'auntie' will scold her.. n there's even an incident where 'auntie' purposely squeeze her wrist area so tightly tat there's red mark.. seen by my mum.. mum happened to drop by..

:sad: now wondering if i shld change helper.. she's only wif me for 6mths..

wow, ur helper showing signs of abuse leh. :shock:

luckily ur DD1 is able to tell u what happen. maybe give warning to her and see if she ever do it again.

Yes i will.. definitely.. tonight is the night.. as i was so bz i forgot to do review wif her during the end of june..

When i tell DH abt it.. he say sometimes when we r so irritated by our kids..we also will do tat wat..so mayb it is a one time off ting.. juz haf to tok to her n c.. sigh.. :skeptical:

[Kissgurami]

Mintymin, sorry for saying this but if you have to do such things then what is your helper for…? and any form of pinching or physical be it light tapping, isn’t allowed. If kids are notti, then parents would be ones correcting not helpers…


have you spoke to your helper on what she did to your DD?

[MintyMin]

Kissgurami:

Mintymin, sorry for saying this but if you have to do such things then what is your helper for...? and any form of pinching or physical be it light tapping, isn't allowed. If kids are notti, then parents would be ones correcting not helpers..


have you spoke to your helper on what she did to your DD?

I did tot abt tat.. but I dun her to end up abusing my kids.. tatz y i close one eye n decide to do it my own.. since in d day she has to look after my DD2 and do hsewrk..

I agree abt it.. she shld not b doing tat.. My mum did point out to her immediately after it happened.. Mum said she looked scared after mum showed helper the redness on DD1's wrist..

Will b toking to her tonight.. I feel she's like behaving like a small kid.. even 斗嘴 wif my DS.. I have decided to have a SERIOUS tok w her..