Sun_2010:Unconditional love is not so natural. Afterall which parent here can hold a hand on the heart and say, when the DC misbehaved in public or when Dc scored miserably or when the teacher called up to complain, our love did not turn conditional. But, imho, as long as we can do it most of the time and especially when ah, this is so so true.... That's why I say only very young children give unconditional love and not really the parents. Sure, most parents are like the giving tree you know. But, we become the giving tree to them because they are our kids, not because of who they are. Ah, I am not sure if anyone understands me....