Any one has children in Red Swastika Pri? Care to share

More infor as I amyhinking of registering my daughter for next
Year

Hi,

You can do without the maid since your kids are in a full day childcare. I have a maid too but sent her back because she did not do what we have instructed her to do while we are at work and my gal is in childcare. Instead, she kept calling back to indonesia, incurring a lot of my phone bill.

Initially, we felt very stressed because we have not maid suddenly but after a while you get used to it and will be able to cope as per normal.

danecalymom:

I
am a working mum with 2 kids, 18mths and 3-1/2yrs. I am thinking of releasing my maid early due to her attitudes, though she had worked with me for 3yr. But I am worried about how to cope without her.

My 2kids are now in full-day care. But my hubby always work late so he is hardly at home to help.

Hi,


My gal is coming 4 years old but she is still sleeping with us because I am worried that she may fall off from her bed as she turn 360degree when asleep.

She sometimes fall from the bed to the floor. I am still trying to see if I should start letting her sleep in her own room. I thought it might be good if she sleep on her own when she starts primary school.

any advise on this issue.

ChiefKiasu:

I've always felt that kids should not sleep with parents beyond the age of 2. Unfortunately, my wife does not subscribe to this idea. What about your kids?

Hi,


I married my husband who is haha so call 25 filial to his parents. I remembered once when his parents malign me and he did not bother to clarify with me and agreed with what his parents said. This has causeda big drift in our relationship. We often get in frequent quarrels and talk less and less. I felt sort of cheated and many a time wanted to go for divorce but KIV because of my daughter. Any advise.

winth:

Hi,


Anyone facing in-law issues? Can share personal experience?

DH said I'm considered quite lucky as he has heard very cham (pitiful) stories from his colleagues.

But from my girlfriends, they seem to be having a breeze and upperhand when they handle in-laws leh...

But one thing I know I'm very lucky is that I don't stay with them, bec if I had, maybe I had already :stupid: liao.

I feel that if a couple no longer have the means to communicate and are not sharing the same room, have no trust with each other anymore, then I would choose to go for divorce. But there again, if it involves children, then we have to think of the children lest they will get hurt and affect their self esteem.

winth:

Are you against divorce?

If a couple no longer have feelings for each other, no intimacy, quarrels, what is your advice? What do you base on when you advise?

If a couple plus husband got affair, do you advise divorce? What do you base on when you advise?

Will there be happiness after divorce? I mean is it better to stay married, with no feelings or better to have a clean break up? Anyone who is able to provide more insight into this?

We need help here. Fyi, it's not us lar... Don't do wild guessing.
But we seriously need advice and help here. DH will sure ask me for my advice soon, moving forward, we need to face this issue and we don't know how to help them.

If you are not comfortable sharing, it's really okay. No obligations.