wow I thought this tread is dead. Anyway ladies don't dwell on it too much as I have said previously life is too short for such agony. Your happiness is in your own hands. Don't let these people upset you

angegiam:

I think as long as IL dun like you, no matter how hard you try or whatever you do, nothing will come out of it. So instead of being so upset and trying so hard, might as well go enjoy yourself. Why torture yourself over it? Life is too short for such agony. :lol:

I have known my hubby for 10 yrs. Dated for 5 yrs married for 5yrs. I was young then hence am sure my directness

I guess my IL wanted to invite my parents cox my FIL want face. It is just that they do not even have the courtesy to give me the invitation to bring home. Just ask me to tell my parents. Not sure if you get what I meant?


But anyway this is only the teeny weeny part of the ice-berg. I guess all is already beyond repair.

[quote]My MIL and SIL were very nasty to my parents too. Recently, they invited my parents to my SIL's wedding, but the wedding card is blank one, said dun have time to write their names. My parents were angry, but said had to give face bec I will kanna gossip if they dun turn up, since none of the relatives knows that the invitation card is blank.
[/quote]Hey not bad lar winth at least still got invitation card. :lol: That time when things did not sour to this stage where I stop going back, my BIL was preparing to get married too. My parents did not even received invitation card. Only ask me to go home to tell my parents that they are invited to the wedding wif FIL giving so many excuses that it is not convinent for him to go up to my house to deliver the invitation card. After all family liao, no need so formal. My gosh................. :shock:

My parents so pissed especially my dad. He initially refused to go till my mum tell him the same thing as what your parents say.

Haha, ur hub must be red in the face if he knows. Guess I must go for 1 too to see if I had murdered his family in my previous life or vice versa.

For me, I just stop going totally after 5yrs of hoo-ha. Now only my hubby and 2DS will go and visit once a month or once a fornight. I think as long as IL dun like you, no matter how hard you try or whatever you do, nothing will come out of it. So instead of being so upset and trying so hard, might as well go enjoy yourself. Why torture yourself over it? Life is too short for such agony. :lol: