Thetrees123:dorabelle:Hi
I am having problems with my girl who is in nursery this year. She dislikes chinese and refuses to learn it. Part of the reason is lack of exposure to mandarin. Me speak some mandarin to her. My hubby speaks zero chinese. The grandmother speaks mostly english to her.
She is in berries since last year (pre nursery) and is attending kindergarten nursery now but chinese is still very bad, refuse to speak and cannot read chinese characters. Whenever i try to teach her chinese from the berries textbooks using stickers to entice her, she cannot sit still and run away immediately or slap the book from my hands.
Are there any parents here who face the same problems? How do u overcome it? I am afraid she will do badly for chinese in PSLE in future.
既然妳会讲华语,那就坚持不要和她讲英语,只和她讲华语。久而久之,孩子自然而然会和妳讲华语,和爸爸讲英语。那不是一举两得吗?
在生活中妳得不断制造讲华语的环境,例如:在家故意和丈夫讲华语,让孩子感受到华语也是生活用语;养成观看8频道9点钟电视连续剧的习惯,让孩子不知不觉紧追剧情,看久了中文程度自然会逐渐进步;在外时,不妨利用机会教育,比如过马路时,告诉他这是交通灯,这是斑马线,这是行人天桥........
语言属于生活,无须死记硬背。若只懂得强逼孩子读课本或补习中心教材,只会弄巧反拙,让孩子和母语渐行渐远。
I agree with Thetrees123.
Put the child in an environment where she will be constantly exposed to the language and no matter how hard she resists, she will pick it up eventually.
Having said that, try not to force the issue, at least not too obviously. Especially if your child has a stubborn nature (like mine =P).
The only \"forcing\" you should probably do is refuse to reply to her in English, even if she replies everything in English. Always speak to her in Chinese. Be stubborn about it. Once you start finding her replying in Chinese unconsciously, you can start acting blur and not respond when she responds in English.
You can also play word games with her, like when she says a word in English, ask her what is it in Chinese and teach her in game if she doesn't know. Likewise, when coming across a Chinese word, ask her what is it in English. Make different funny sounds when she gets it right or wrong, or tickle game, etc. In other words, add fun into it so she'll resist less. Do it enough, and she will not only be able to master Chinese, she will master translation.
Introduce Chinese books maybe a bit later, especially those that contains complicated characters. Kids who're already resistant to Chinese will really hate Chinese when made to recognize tough words. Instead, use pictures to introduce simple Chinese words to give them life and new meaning, e.g. how a picture can become the word \"big\" (a stickman with the arms wide open), \"sun\" (a circle with a dot in the middle), \"see\" (a hand above the eye), etc. Once interest is induced, you can then introduce simple picture books that she'll like, and slowly move from there. Don't force her to read the words, but rather, read the story to her first to induce further interest. Then reread the same book that she showed interest in a few days later (or at her request), and this time read while pointing to the words. Then progress to taking turns to read different words, then sentences, then let her read herself.
The idea of Chinese TV is good too. Chinese cartoons? Her favorite princess cartoons, but switch to Chinese?
It is good that you're already looking into it while she is still in nursery. The later you start the harder it will be. Persist and you'll succeed.