tks snow white. got a shock initially, now better and yup will be monitoring her performance. tink so long as she can render me the assistance i needed can liao and pray hard she dun give me any headache (=^o^=)

die la, i need maid cos i m a single-mum raising 3 kids on my own plus 1 of them after fall sick, from normal child became iq of 2 yo with handicapped. no maid i cant go work plus to lighten my load but due to my gal's medical condition, had changed 10 over maid. 1 of them even purposely broke her arm, by twisted force according to the doctor. this is the 15th.


i say die la cos fetch maid today n kept her hp, told her will give it to her only on her off day. agent told me she ex-sg so is can work de, so i take cos too many previous maid issues (mostly same unhappy n scary incidents you all faced too) but i found out she has bf and they r v intimate from her sms. i asked if she has bf, she said no. my concern is if she got preg, i will kena den gotta change maid again!!

told agent abt it, she said i kept her hp, she may not b happy plus we have no control over them having bf, most imptly is she can work for me cos of my family situation. tink of wat to do if worse things happen!!!

i have not been working since my gal fall sick in 2006, now dat she is no longer bed-ridden and have started talking, i can go back to the workforce. in order to do dat, i need a maid to help me with the chores and childcare. i'm staying at my mum n bro's house cos i sold off my flat to pay off debts, no place to stay n savings r depleted so maid is not only i use. getting my mum to help out is a no-no as she doesn't want to be tied down and she has her own stuff to do, also she's not obliged to help me when i m not paying her to help out...but how to when i have no income?. this is my \"nan chu\" lor.

haiz...back to the maid, should i wait few days see her performance or send her back or talk to her about me knowing she lied abt no bf??

when u all talk abt just send the maid back, it's easy but how abt the upfront payment made? will be forfeited if i do so and i dun have the means to spent on this type of $$ whenever i find maid cmi.....:(

sent back my pina after 8 mths wif me. b4 she even reached sg, her sister and sister’s bf came over to my place to look for her. agent checked her bag thoroughly b4 i took her home, no hp. the moment we reached home, she asked v politely for favour: wont use hp to talk only sms cos she misses her daughter. the agent chided her for hiding her hp so she guai guai dun use. den v big eater too, said if dun eat rice will faint. cannot eat noodle. i told her noodle or rice, all from wheat. also tell me she must sleep at certain time or else wont make up to 8 hours of sleep. told her so long as i dun ill-treat her can liao. we always let her eat nice food and ate b4 us and if nothing to do can take nap still not satisfied.


overall ok but likes to cry and tell me since young she like dat. after my mum told her cannot cry else very suay she stop.

after her off days start, she changed liao, shody works, lying and finding excuses for it and many request for this and dat. told her dun take advantage of us being nice to her. she asked how to gain back my trust, i told her she gotta prove it to me to earn back the trust, few days later she said since i dun trust her anymore, she quit. i told her fine, will let the agent knows she changed her mind. told her since she’s the one who said wanna quit, i wont keep her. and not wanting to waste my energy on her issue bothering me, i sent her back.