clare:Hello to all! I'm a trying-to-be-kiasu mum to three, ages 1,3 and 5.We reside in the U.S. currently but will return to Singapore sometime next year... just in time for P1 registration, which I hear is a mind-boggling process, to say the least :shock:My kids are probably lagging behind every other kid on the entire island in terms of academic skills, so it'll be *really* interesting to see how they fare in the cutthroat world of local schools :lol: clareHi clare... and welcome to KiasuParents.com! It's not difficult to be kiasu. What is difficult is to be kiasu and rational at the same time. Fortunately, we have a bunch of very rational parents amongst our midst, so hopefully that would help you relax when you get back to Singapore.