dear kiasuparents, i am really stuck and hope to seek some advice. my girl is from a mixed marriage (chi/mly) and i intend to let her take malay as her mother tongue subject as i am able to guide her better. my husband’s chinese is half past six! i also wouldn’t want to rely on others to teach her mandarin. so we realised that the school nearest to us - pei chun don’t offer malay. so my next consideration is first toa payoh but i heard that the kids there are rough and wild? i am not sure how true… so hope that someone can shed some light on this. doesn’t help that my in-laws like to say that there are many malays in first toa payoh (i think they forgot that i am a malay…). but i saw the website, the videos from first toa payoh and i kinda like the vibes from the school as it feels very inclusive with kids of all races. appreciate if any parent can advise. thank you.