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Hi all,

My eldest son is currently studying in VS Year 1 (IP). I've noticed his getting stressed up lately and even have started to grow white hair. During PTM around a month ago his form teacher told me that he seem to not have any friends in the school. I've asked him about it and he told me that due to the fact that it's a boy school and that his the only one from his Primary school that went to VS, most of the boys does not share the same interests with him. Therefore he feels that he does't fit in and 'have no friend'. Due to this, his teachers have misunderstood him and thought that he's unsocial, lazy, incapable etc. Basically, a 'bad student'. (I also have no idea why)(Not saying that VS teachers are bad) I've also noticed that his results are affected by this. I'm wondering if I should transfer him to another school (Preferably Mixed-school) like Anglican High. He said that he doesn't want to do anything and just deal with it as he's afraid that things will get worst. But I'm afraid that he will develop depression and/or anti-social behaviour later on. So what should I do or what should he do? Thank you very much.