Mine is a nightmare.it will take pages for me to pen it down.In short, a totally nightmarish experience.and I have to "report" to her house every once a week just for kids to play.if not hubby will have a war with me as he values close family ties. Yep,we are oth very different with our values…not that I am not close to my family.we have different styles in bringing up the kids, which is very stressful.