hi all,tks for your replies, I’ve tot of persuading the maid, but there are other issues,I just feel that maids are playing the field , exchanging notes and looking fr other easier jobs, and I have to retrain again,

( she is far from my reasonable exptn, n I gave her a long time to pick up, and lowered my expectn, till I just became numb…bo chap, as long as she does laundry and cleaning and some cookin…) Its reaaly painful to pay for expensive ridiculous fees, however, its not worth my keeping her either, haiz,

Hi all, m looking for a transfer, first m told indon maid agency fees is $1200 plus I need to pay their loan of up to 8 maths…what a total rip off! Is this the norm now, I tot the loan shd be less? What is happening, we are jus pathetic,n pay is also more n the girls are not serious? Wow, I have a helper of six myths and requesting to transfer…cos she SD she does not like to gut the fish…dh goes fishing and catches fish 2x a week, w, sorry digressed a little err the fees are jus so exorbitant…what is crazily happening…aaagh, tks fr reading

Thanks for your reply…at least I know what to expect,

Hi everyone…i posted earlier about my helper who wants an increment at par… iv offered her $100 increment and she is asking for $120 from her current pay which is $340…anyway…my question is is it advisable to help her with transfer as she is keen to transfer coz i am not interested to renew her…


for the record…she is reliable, cooks well, able to do marketing but can be yaya ( iv allowed her to use handphone)

any input is much appreciated. Tks in adv…
cheers

Dear parents,

Tks for all valuable input,appreciate it very much , i agree with yur opinion, if she is happy working for me she would also want to stay, hence i would offer first 420 and c her reaction.....prob can up to slightly more(after 3 mths) if she shows her willingness to work, else gee its really good luck to me to scout for another... theres so much i wd tolerate for attitude too..

m so relieved to read yur views and opinions....thank u so much for that.. this forum rocks! :boogie:

HI all,my helper wants an increment to be at par with the current’s maid pay, iv asked her to renew her contract, question is how much is at par? cos her current pay is 340, she has hdp…m tolerating her attitude cos she can do 70 % f the job, but feels she can be yayapapaya at times… plus m not sure bt my future w other maids…new maids i mean,


am willing to max incremtn of $100, but if shes askg for more threan im ??? not sure? haiz… any input is much appreciated

btw when i asked her how much she wants? she said the min rate the other md is getting ? hmmmph

thanks in adv