Littlefly:Bbee: Absolutely agree with you on this! It takes a lot of drive, commitment from the parents too. Its not easy on my brother and sil to handle a child who obviously outwit, outreason and outtalk both of them and highly sensitive. Actually I don't know where to start too but i will try to read up and hopefully dont ask silly questions myself. Haha. Bbee: 2ppaamm's kids are lucky to have such a great mum who is so resourceful and determine to help her kids. Am sure it was a long, hard search/battle before she found her solutions. Most parents of such kids are clueless. I also understand that not all have the resources. There are no silly questions, Littlefly. If we don't ask, we will never know.Your nephew is fortunate to have a great aunt who goes out of her way to find help for him. There's always a reason behind why kids are behaving the way they do. I hope some leads will come in soon, in whatever form, whether it's from this Forum or anywhere else. :idea: