I am a ftwm and newly single. Youngest is in p4 GEP. Very thankful that he is very happy in the new environment and is coping well. Have withdrawn from SC when he started GEP as there are 4 out of 5 days that he finishes lessons at 3, so he takes the school bus home and lets himself into the house, and the one day that he goes home for lunch, I will prepare a thermos box lunch for him. He does not have much homework and spends most of his time on the computer. He doesn't have any tuition or enrichment programme. So far we have not helped him with his projects, just to prepare the materials he require to make the posters. I can see that he is flourishing with the mental challenges from school and he has also found his interest in mathematics. Do not intend to send him for tuition so that he has no choice but to work the problems out. Think I have blessed so far... :xedfingers:

Actually, trust does not just mean EMA. My ex gambled excessively in the away close to 150k in our first year of marriage. After I emptied all my savings to repay his debts, I trusted him to learn his lesson and not go back that way again but he betrayed my trust 3 more times with the same mistake. The last time he betrayed my trust we split. After 20 years. His debt is now close to 500k. I’ve had enough.