musette:Thanks everyone, for the welcome!CK, I know our kids are smart in their own ways, but in what way, I have yet to discover. Especially my eldest son!Insider, my kids are boy, girl, boy. Gosh, I have forgotten how much work it is to look after a baby. hi a welcome from a newbie to another!i also found this site recently. Hoping to gain more knowledge esp regarding education for preschoolers and discipline methods etc. I only have 1 girl, now 4 yrs old. Really admire and marvel how u gals handle 3 kids! hehehee.....maybe its all abt mental preparation and so far I can't envision myself ever becoming preggy again. Cheers,Joy :celebrate: