I said out the D word today & I am so glad to get it out of my chest - though I dont know what to do next … Should I tolerate 'cos of kid but I will go crazy soon.


No infidelity issue - simply the way i see it lack of respect and trust and too many cold wars drive me from nuts to indifference to wish he is not at home. During cold wars, he gets onto and off bed nosily disturbing my sleeps to show his frustration, pushed my bath towel to one end, throw my undies hanging to dry and barred me from touching the family car. Mind you we are equal in terms of bringing back the pay check. How can a man be so freakingly childish? If woman has menopause I dont know what man has. He’s so damn sensitive. Any wrong choice of words will turn him black face - how to survive a marriage threading on thin ice? I’m sick of all the emo blackmail and he knows I don’t have family members to turn to or friends to run away to … I am sick of always the person to ask for "forgiveness " to save the marriage. I am depressed and starting to hate myself so much.