This is what I know. Why people (any age) end up addicted to something is because they are seeking experiences that they want but couldn’t have directly.

For example, branded goods is to get approval. Games: an alternate world that they experience winning and success.

A family therapist from the USA whom I know personally is coming down to Singapore in Nov to conduct a parenting workshop. He has done amazing work with families, I have attended his workshop once while in the States. I saw how he turned a problematic relationship between an 11 y.o. and her family around on the spot. A lot of times is because of communication breakdown… frequency is different. His approach is not like typical counsellor/therapist who will tell you should do this or that, this way sure fall to deaf ears especially with the child.

Can PM me to find out more.

He really knows how to sync with the child and teach the parent how to get connected at their level. Once communication can flow through, the conflict starts to resolve.
You can read more at facebook.com/groups/pop4parents or register at
enlightenedparentshappykids.eventbrite.com