Oh hi,


Yes I am having problem with my FIL!!! very problematic every nitty gritty things will sms my husband (just bcos he is the eldest son but not only son!) so what are the other siblings for?

Not staying with him currently but he comes to stay with us on alternate wkends..(not given a choice for the sake for my child)..as quarrelled with him many times and almost divorced.. :?:

Hi,


Ai yoh! I really hope so that she will stop crying, she had initially stopped for period of time and I thought she was already well adjusted until she started her nonsense again.

She can be happily getting ready for school then when she reaches her class room, she starts again…

I do give her a proper good bye by kissing and hi-five…but she is just so emotional and she jolly well knows my mom (her grandmother) will for sure pick her up in the evening…

Haiz…guess greater patience is the key word!




Hi Pgss_72,

My eldest ds was also like yours until he was in mid-K1. He was happy and participative in school. However, cried bitterly when bidding bye bye to me. He is an expressive kid and was able to tell me he felt his heart aching when he had to say goodbye to me. He said he understand that he has to go school but he can’t control his heartache. On further probing, he said he would always worry about whether I will be alright when he was in school. He’d asked me to drive carefully, dial my hp for help if I get trapped in the lift…

He was experiencing separation anxiety. In the end, we agreed that we would bid bye bye and hug each other 3 times, then he would have to turn and go into class. I was strict about this agreement and would simply walked off after the 3rd hug. Ds would sob, but will go into class, trying to compose himself.

What I strongly feel is that there is no need to feel embarrassed in this type of situation. I do not care what other mummies are thinking or what remarks they made. I cared more about my ds’s feelings. Aren’t they quite poor thing enough that they are experiencing separation anxiety?

The good news is, once old enough, they will certainly outgrow this phase. My ds did, when he was in mid-K1.cheers.[/quote]

My girl who is turning 4 this year and attending pre-school, still crys when I say good bye to her. At first I was worried that she might have got bullied in school that maked her cry.


However, after observing her and checking with the principal, teachers and herself, conclusion is she is enjoying all the activities in school except for the morning cry

In fact, in the evening after work when I returned home, she is always happily jumping and sharing with me her school happenings!

Can someone please advise me how to make my gal stop her morning nonsense as now she is already in N2 and has been crying off an on (though most of the time is \"on\") since N1. :stupid:

Its very embrassing to bring her to school when other parents kept staring at you...