Like to share something with you today…

"Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness,
but because you deserve peace".

Hello

I am a newbies in this forum.

I am facing the same situation, married for more than a decade with 2 children.

I found attached link very interesting and I would like to share with you.
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/coping_divorce_relationship_breakup.htm

Have to get the first step out to accept the fact that he is not going to change no matter how much you want to do. Many things are beyond our control and we could not change others however you could change yourself, your mindset. Of cause, this is never easy. It's extremely stressful and especially with children around. The time when we need peace they could not give and might be struggling that is too \"peaceful\" when everyone fallen asleep. Nevertheless, we have to move on.....

Plan for yourself and children, we have a long way to go. I have been seeing a counselor and also have contact for lawyers. You could post me a note at [email protected] if you are interest.

In life, don't expect anything from anyone..
Because expectation, when not fulfilled, gives you pain.
When you get something without expecting it,
it gives you pleasure.
Keep doing your part n leave the rest to God.

You are absolutely NOT alone....我们一起加油!!