Hi Mommies


I would you to avoid this maid Cho Cho Win to have same experience with me. I’ve two helpers from Myanmar who are Cho Cho Win (4 months) and xxxx (1 month) since I’ve two children with 1.1 year and 1.5 months old respectively.

I would like to share unacceptable , intolerant and disrespectful of her misbehaviour, attitude problem and irresponsible towards the job.

I’ve created the report in MOM and called police as well since she shouted me.

1. Abuse the co-worker verbally and emotionally
1) She (Cho Cho Win) screamed at the second helper (Moh Moh Khine) 3 times within two weeks.
a. First time was after 2 days of second helper arrival and in front of us (me and husband) due to opening of windows throughout the night and they blamed each other. We warned her not to do in future.
b. After 2 days, they argued again where one in living room and another in kitchen. she was shouting from the kitchen though I’m at home.
c. Third time was at my mother in law house at 22.2.19 and she yelled again to the second helper due to the bottle steamer.
2) Unwilling to help and share the workload with second helper. Except for the cooking and feeding the second baby, she refused to do anything else.
3) She was telling the second helper that other helpers which she knew went back hometown within 6 months without reimbursing back anything and able to leave. She asked whether second helper also would like to do so the same thing.
4) She mentioned to second helper that how her friends (other helpers) get treated well from employer and nothing much to do at home which indirectly pursuing second helper to quit the job or depress with wrong expectation.
5) She borrowed money and selling her stuff to second helper.
6) She doesn’t allowed second helper to rest although I myself owner allow to rest (sleep) when babies are sleeping, she asked her to work every hour at day time.
7) She doesn’t want to take care the 1 year old toddler and she told the second helper that taking care of the toddler is your job. When toddler wakes up, she pretend either busy or pick up the second baby for changing diaper. She doesn’t help the second helper when she needs help for the toddler showering or washing after pooping. However she asked the second helper to take care the 1 month old baby whenever she is free and during we are outside.
She pretended not to hear when I talked to her sometimes.
9) When I asked her to clean my room (twice a week), she said “lesson no 1”. I told her that I’ve nothing to give you lesson and all the jobs in this house is your tasks.
10) When she needs to talk to me, she don’t come up personally and talked from kitchen.
11) While I’m carrying the second baby and went clinic with her, she doesn’t offer to open the door and she sat down in car first.
12) When I discipline her, she tell me back each and everything reasons and she is right.
13) I called agent and agent warned her however her performance is worsen. She was unhappy about it and scolded the seconder helper why told the agent.
14) I asked her to work the way how I want, but she doesn’t listen and she do according how she wants to do. Example cleaning mattress and putting the mat.

2. Behaviour and Attitude
1) Misbehaving: We provided the wifi service and she used every day during working hours. We have to go to her to call out from room to work and it was repeating over again and again. She used till late night 1 am or 3 or 4 am as well. We therefore decided to cut it off and gave hourly basic however her performance was still the same. At last, we had to take out the internet access completely at all.
2) Poor performance: She claimed that she has not enough rest at my place. I delivered the second baby at 27 Dec, during November and December time, there were two helpers and she claimed that she has many things to do at home and not enough sleep. Me and my spouse woke up at night every single day to feed our first baby and they were not required to wake up. Once second baby is out, since I can’t handle both kids to feed at the same time, we requested to wake up at night alternately however I still wake up every night together with each helper. We asked them to write down on the book for every hour what they are doing so that we can help to sort it out but none of them write down what they do on each and every hour.
3) Disrespectful to employer and gave unhappy face everyday. When I approached her, she doesn’t response to me back either yes or no and kept quiet. Whenever she needed to talk to me, she asked second helper to talk to me. I asked her to speak to me directly and she never look at me and with hard tone voice to talk to employer.
4) She showed the wrong behaviour in front of my son to learn and taught wrong thing.
5) I’ve to wake her up at 7:00 am morning 5 times and she made loud noise intentionally during cooking in kitchen on that day.
6) She did not inform to me 2 days in advance for all the house items after consumed and informed me last min before cooking.
7) She lied to me and if she did wrong things, she claimed that it was the previous helper’s fault.
She did differently in front of me and behind. Example, she washed her clothes with washing machine at night 1:00 am after I slept and kept in dryer. Next day, she hang outside and dry up quickly before I woke up. I allowed to use the machine once a week however I’ve restricted to put underwear and sarong especially during her menses time but she put everything into machine. I’ve provided the separate food for them like bread, coffee and snacks etc however she cooked for herself extra meal (evening tea time) while we are outside and she was consuming our foods without asking employer permission.
9) Trying to equal the foot with employer. Example: I eat boil egg every morning and she also eats without employer permission.

3. Upload my Son picture and sharing internal affair at social media
1) Understand that she has uploaded my son picture at her facebook account without my permission and shared about our internal affair.

4. Exchanging info or chit chatting with neighbour maids
1) During evening walk within our condo and going supermarket, she was chit chatting with neighbour maids.
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