CatTy 007:Hi,I can understand how u are feeling. I guess you'll need to sit down n discuss with ur hubby what kind of childhood do u want for your child and what are your expectations for him?A straight As child or a happy child?Personally, B3 n B4 aren't very poor. Think abt it, were u a straight As kid when u were young? I just came upon a news article reporting that alot of young kids nowadays are having mental problems like depression and this trend is on the rise. I think we as parents need to reflect are we giving our kids too much pressure. My hub and my stand is that we want our child to have a happy childhood. Not that they can fail but they must put in their best effort. We don't require them to get straight As but we're fine with Bs n above. I don't know whether this piece of advice is of any help to you but I hope that you and your kid will be happier. snowwhitejt:Hi,My son results are very very bad. B3 for English & Chinese. B4 for Math & Science.Should I put him in student care? or get a 1 to 1 tutor for him again?Next year he will be in the morning session(P4) & I strongly believed that he will be watching or sleeping the whole day at home.Wat should I do?Any good student care to recommend near CCK north 6?Any good tutor to recommend?I guess parent main worry is with present result, how the child will handle primary leaving examinations. Esp. when he moves to higher primary level and syllabus gets tougher. Sad to say that school leaving exam PSLE will be the instrument tool to determine streaming and type of secondary school he/she goes to. If a child has been obtaining consistent good results, many parents may feel confident that he / she should be able to do handle well in PSLE by default. However, if the child starts showing down trend in school results, it will inevitably cause parent’s anxiety. I also believe in giving a child a happy and memorable childhood life and this is always been top priority among many parents here as well, I believe. However, there are other areas (i.e. academic aspect as one of them) we need to look into as well. In this meritocracy driven system, we need to strike a balance between sweetness and hardship after all. It may sound easier than done, but we are the parents for bring up our own child, we should know and gauge to what extend we can go.