Hi Mummies...


Sorry this may be long...

My dotter is in K2 this year and since Nursery she has been studying at PCF in the west. I registered her there because its the nearest to my MIL. Nursery was peaceful and fine however from K1 a series of incidents happened.

1) She started crying and refuse to go School, after much probing realized that the Chinese Teacher forbid her to go Toilet because the teacher said that the Children keeps going toilet and this disturb her class!!! So from this incident onwards, i believed it was deeply imprint in her tiny mind though everything seems alright after we spoken to the teacher. Not long after the teacher was posted to other PCF and my dotter gradually get use to school.

2) in K2, during 1st term, my dotter suddenly tell me that the teacher does not allow her and some other kids to take their snacks because they can't finished their schoolworks. I told her to try to write faster if others can finish their work on time u can do it too and this seems ok however sometimes in Jun Holidays, one day she started crying saying she was scare of school and schoolwork especially Chinese. She will wake up in the middle of the night crying and say she wanted to learn to write difficult chinese characters. she will often be startled up in the middle of the night too. Everyday when she is about to go to school she will start to cry and we can see that she is really frighten. We decided to bring her to see a Psychiatrist and though this helps a little but she still cry and commented that she is afraid of the teachers. We spoken to the teachers and also the principle, what makes me furious was when my MIL said she want to talk to the principle, the administrator commented \" Auntie, we are very busy leh!\" Oh Gosh! My MIL was frustrated and rebuked, \"Hey, we wanted to tell you about my grand dotter's condition but you are actually stopping us. We pay for her to study here and not deprived!\" then only the principle shakes her butt out!!! This is not acceptable for an education provider!!! :stompfeet: :mad:

Today, my dotter cried too and commented again that she was scared of school. :gloomy: The teachers there knows about my dotter conditions but what they do is check temperature and the necessary checks and say \"Go\" (means to enter the class). I thought the basics for teachers today are to show care and concern to children and let the children feel safe under their care? Sorry but i must says that these attributes are not found in this PCF

You may wondered why i did not change school. After the 1st incident, all seems ok so i thought this was the most convenient school for my MIL who can fetch her. After the 2nd incident which is now, and almost end of the year so it dosen helps to get her to new school for 1mth.

Mummies, i would be glad to hear your advice. thanks!