6thisnthat9:Hi Divergent 2,Thanks for sharing your experience, must be not easy for you to acknowledge. Hi divergent_2,Divergent 2:
Hi Jetsetter
I think you totally mis-read my intention. I agree with you that the primary education will not be an important factor in future employment. What I mean is the transfering of school from here and there, then go back, does not look good on records. Most importantly, I want to stress whether to enter the program or not need to be considered in a serious manner. I admit I may be overly worried because I am actually considering letting one of my child return to mainstream. Whether to remain or return is also not an easy decision.
By saying society as a whole, it is very real. Those who are not in the program will never understand the challenges that both child and parent face as gep group belongs to a minority. They would not understand that it is not a failure but a choice should they choose to return. The labelling and eye-rolling (on child and parent) is there even when the child joins the program. Do you think the labelling and eye-rolling will be gone if child return to ms?
Many parents would just bite the bullet and keep it to themselves, esp in sg. Only good news are shared. These are life experiences that would make us grow wiser, yes, we parents too.
Could I ask which school is your child in? It may not be applicable for me now but it may not be possible to locate you in future by the time I needed more information. or could you share via PM instead?
Agreed that the experience was not easy and such bad experiences are usually kept to themselves. Was at the briefing today, perhaps my understanding was wrong, but the baseline of 70% was meant to ensure the child is benefiting from the program. The program was not supposed to be easy and the child is expected to work hard to achieve it. However it was not told that below and \"you are out\". Besides the drop out rates were very, very low for the last two years, and it was expressly mentioned: not due academic achievement.
Specifically, such cases will involve the in-school counsellor, the teachers, the parents as well as GEB officers and counsellors. And the options they mentioned were either change to ms in the gep school or back to their previous ms school if there are vacancies, but like you mentioned either way, the stigma could be real. Having said that, not that your concerns are unfounded, and with the very little that you have mentioned in the posts, I may be wrong but noticed that you have mentioned only interactions between teachers in the school. Perhaps you want to approach the counsellors or even GEB to discuss your problems or options. The burden seems heavy and it really is not fun to bear it with the start of the long holidays.
May not be applicable in your case, dd toughest year was P4 due to the jump in the standard, it became easier in P5, perhaps because we are used to her \"surprises\"... But may again read too intensely and schools are different, but in dd class, only the stronger in maths are \"selected\" for the MO training.... Hang in there and good luck on whatever path your dd takes...
Personally don't think going back to ms is a sign of failure or weakness on child or parent, every child is different and parents would only choose the best path for the child.... we are not equipped to judge....
didn't think I could be facing this situation again after P1
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