NonKiasuDad,I am curious as to:a. why are you in this forum cos it seems that your kids are just weeks oldb. which post in particular in this tread gives you the feeling of kiasu-ness in parents?I only started to join this forum last year and my eldest is already in P2. I must say I really respect some of the parents here who are really committed parents and constantly racking their brains to assist their children to learn better, rather than just conveniently send their kids to this or that enrichment classes, and pressure their kids and/or the teachers along the way. These parents are so helpful in sharing their experiences with all, I wish I had such resources when my older kids were younger. However, there are very kiasu parents who send their kids to all sorts of classes even when their kids are less than 3 yo. You decide what kind of parent you want to be. Happy fatherhood!