verylost

Not sure if DH is straying, he still treats me well. However, in the last few months, he had came home after 3pm (3 times) with smoke and tint of perfume smell on him/clothes. Twice I found some marks on him....tho I'm not sure if it's really what I think (self-denial perhaps)


Confronted him in a joking manner. He would 'entertain' me for ~5mins after which he would get frustrated & irritated when I probe more. I'm feeling rather lost now......what do I want? can I handle the truth if he had really cheated on me? Being rather traditional, I would probably push him away once I know he has touched someone else......

I dunno if he's angry/irritated with me >>for not trusting him or >> he's guilty and trying to hide.
I dun drink and tho I know smoke will get onto the clothes and hair in air-con places, but perfume? And the perfume smell is only found on certain spots on him/clothes which make me all the more suspicious and going :siao: thinking about it.

Any advice?