jedamum:

because of the 'married with kids' status, i believe my husband has been denied overseas posting. i am hoping that his coy can overcome this hurdle as i don't mind being a part-time 'single' parent (maybe cos i'm a sahm) if it is for the good of his career.

I know how your situation is..It is tough to be a single parent.. But your kids may miss him a lot ..why don't you to think once before taking a decision because kids need both the parents.