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Hello all, my family need desperate helps of any kind or my younger sister who is 15 yrs old in a neighborhood secondary school.


She used to be like any other normal child who is happy and cheerful. Then as years past, she developed a kind of sickness whereby whenever someone cough or make spitting noises with their throat around her, she will start coughing back and fleeking her hair towards the persons direction to "throw" the germs away.Apart from that, she has alot of weird behavior going on lately. She will constantly (every 5minutes) bang on the wall with her hands or stomp on the ground with her feet as she complains the neighbors are making alot of noise in their house to get back at them tho (there isn’t any noise). Apart from that, she sleeps past midnight everyday sometimes untill 3am plus coping up in her room and watching youtube videos. Then she will always wake up at 6am plus for school the next day, rushing and always wasting money to get a cab to school. As a results of this, she is always late for school, fall asleep in class. She was in the express stream but had failed and ending up in the bottom last of her current NA class. She might be retaining sec 3 next year.

My mom is the one who suffered the most. She tried all ways and think of all possible reasons for her behavior. We called for an intervention from all our relatives but end up she refuse to see anyone. She hurl vulgarities, being extremely violent and aggressive towards anyone, even me as my brother. She also become anti-social and refuse to see anyone. Now my mother is literally the only one in her life but instead of cherishing her, she always bully my mom. She will have endless arguments over a small issue (why are you 5 minutes late) for hours screaming back and forth causing my mother to cry. She will throw tantrum and insist my mother to accede to her outrageous request such as to say sorry for 100 times. My mother has lost alot of weight, her hair starts to fall, her eyebags are huge, and has become extremely affected mentally and emotionally because of my sister sudden state. My mother even called a medium as we were afraid she has been possessed because of her situation but this is not the case. My sister has been warded at imh before and the unbelievable thing is that she requested to continue to be warded in IMH instead of coming out. Things has gotten so bad that we have moved her into staying with my grandmother so that my mother can recuperate and not get terrorized by her.

The thing is, she refuses to see anyone now, especially if it’s some kind of doctor.I’m hoping for anyone to go "undercover" and try to befriend her as she won’t open up to any of us now.I’m pleading to everyone who is able to read this post and provide solutions to help my sister. Any recommendation for good children psychologist, counselor or any kind Samaritan who is willing to give it a try and help, we will be forever in debt to you and definitely will give a love token for your help. Anxiously awaiting any replies.

Regards,
Brandon