Thank you all! But I still decied to give up the infant care centers and take baby home, becaese this morning's experience was so horrible. Today I took the baby to the center again, and he kept crying even when I was holding him. He resisted eating anything. And one of the babies there who was always crying stood in the middle of the room, crying without stop! The worst thing was that all the teachers were very busy and got no time for this pity and fussy one. I only took my boy to there for half an hour. Because of intolerance of all the tears and cry, I took him back to home. I finally decied let the boy stay at home. Because this weekend our new maid will arrive, hope this one will be better than the before one. Since I can manage to work at home in most of my time, I think maid may be better than the centers according to my condition. I won't send the boy to the care-programs before he is 18 months. I just can not bear his tears, shoutings, and pity and innocent face. Thank you all of your precious sharing!