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Previously my dd1 was taken care by my MIL till she was around 5 yo. Really ęč¦é¾čØć she is very stubborn and refused to take any suggestion or opinion. She insisted on her own way. At that time, my dd1 was really severely under-weight, not even 7kg when she was 10mo. Her pediatrician advised to consume more frequent feed in milk and solid foods. But my MIL insisted that drinking milk not as gd as porridge. Her porridge contained of liver, intestine, all funny things which my dd1 didn't like to eat n MIL has difficulty of feeding her. Same porridge for 3 times a day. At that time, my dd1 really ęę of eating porridge. Dh told her many times but refused to listen. Although I hv tough time of looking after dd2 myself but as least I'm totally in- charge without MIL intervention.
My dd2 will be going to Kindergarten next Jan. Hopefully she is ready toilet trained by then :xedfingers:
Sigh...å®¶å®¶ęę¬é¾åæµēē»...my mom has her share of stubbornness, DS was coughing for some time, told mom not to give him any cold stuff, she gave him ice kacang behind my back, I din know it till he threw up with the jelly stuff and when I asked mom, her answer was 'oh...I eat ice kacang and he wants it mah, so I only gave him some red bean lor', then I said 'but these are not red bean that he threw out!' she just commented that 'oh, I just gave him some of the ice kacang stuff' :stupid: her excuse was 'he wants it wat, cry if I dun give'...and give him banana which I told her the last time when he cough not to give, this time round she said 'he go and get it himself, and b4 I knew it, he was already eating it, and since he is already eating it, if I take it away from him, then he will cry.... plus you said not to give the last time he cough, but never said this time mah!' :slapshead: ...dun get me started with her choice of food for DS when she is out...sigh....but she is ok if she dun go out and stay at home cook for my DS.(home cooking is always the best, except the part where I ask her not to add any seasoning to DS's diet and her reply was tasteless, how to expect her to eat
Good for you! though you have hard time looking after your DD2(which I can image) but at least MIL is out of the way, even if her intention is good, but unless she sees her problem, else, it's your DD's suffering...
Wow, you already started toilet training your DD2? I thought of toilet training DS but think it's a bit tough to do it only during weekend, so just thinking, haven't start yet...any tips & tricks to share? like how to start?