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    • RE: Neonatal and Confinement

      buds:
      As a 1st time mum then, i was horrified to be advised to stop

      breastfeeding for awhile. Yes. Stop breastfeeding. :shock: Can
      you imagine my anguish. I too used to work in GP and have seen
      my fair share of goings-on which i thought was sufficient to prep me.
      How wrong i was. But as the reading increased each time i went for bb's
      follow up... i decided i couldn't bear to watch the prick on her heel any
      longer... Bb was so used to it after double light photo-therapy and daily
      prickings that she simply stuck her heel out automatically after a while.. :lol:
      .... for the daily early morning pricks.
      Wow Buds,

      Really appreciate that you told me your experience, looks like your 1st bb really got into serious Jaundice which need daily blood test. When I brought my bb for the blood test, the pricking sound on her tiny heel break my heart. I used to prick into other patients' fingers to test for blood (I do it gently on them, none of them cried before), but never seen my own bb cried for it. (Funny is the 2nd time she went for the blood test she just frown abit.)

      Hope I can share my accumulate knowledge about Jaundice with the rest of the mums-to-be or new mums with same problem.

      Jaundice in Healthy Newborns
      Jaundice refers to the yellow color of the skin and whites of the eyes caused by excess bilirubin in the blood. Bilirubin is produced by the normal breakdown of red blood cells.

      Normally, bilirubin passes through the liver and is excreted as bile through the intestines. Jaundice occurs when bilirubin builds up faster than a newborn's liver can break it down and pass it from the body. Reasons for this include:

      Newborns make more bilirubin than adults do since they have more turnover of red blood cells. A newborn baby's still-developing liver may not yet be able to remove adequate bilirubin from the blood.
      Too large an amount of bilirubin is reabsorbed from the intestines before the baby gets rid of it in the stool.

      High levels of bilirubin — usually above 25 mg — can cause deafness, cerebral palsy, or other forms of brain damage in some babies. In less common cases, jaundice may indicate the presence of another condition, such as an infection or a thyroid problem.

      Types of Jaundice

      Physiological Jaundice: (Most common) occurring in most newborns, this mild jaundice is due to the immaturity of the baby's liver, which leads to a slow processing of bilirubin. It generally appears at 2 to 4 days of age and disappears by 1 to 2 weeks of age.

      Jaundice of Prematurity: occurs frequently in premature babies since they are even less ready to excrete bilirubin effectively. Jaundice in premature babies needs to be treated at a lower bilirubin level than in full term babies in order to avoid complications.

      Breastfeeding Jaundice: jaundice can occur when a breastfeeding baby is not getting enough breast milk because of difficulty with breastfeeding or because the mother's milk isn’t in yet. This is not caused by a problem with the breast milk itself, but by the baby not getting enough to drink.

      Breast Milk Jaundice: in 1% to 2% of breastfed babies, jaundice may be caused by substances produced in their mother's breast milk that can cause the bilirubin level to rise. These can prevent the excretion of bilirubin through the intestines. It starts after the first 3 to 5 days and slowly improves over 3 to 12 weeks.

      Blood Group Incompatibility (Rh or ABO problems): if a baby has a different blood type than the mother, the mother might produce antibodies that destroy the infant's red blood cells. This creates a sudden buildup of bilirubin in the baby's blood. Incompatibility jaundice can begin as early as the first day of life. Rh problems once caused the most severe form of jaundice, but now can be prevented with an injection of Rh immune globulin to the mother within 72 hours after delivery, which prevents her from forming antibodies that might endanger any subsequent babies.

      Symptoms and Diagnosis
      Jaundice usually appears around the second or third day of life. It begins at the head and progresses downward. A jaundiced baby's skin will usually appear yellow first on the face, followed by the chest and stomach, and finally, the legs. It can also cause the whites of an infant's eyes to appear yellow.

      Since many babies are now released from the hospital at 1 or 2 days of life, it is best for the baby to be seen by a doctor within 1 to 2 days of leaving the hospital to check for jaundice (esp for Caucasians who discharge right after enough resting in hospital). Parents should also keep an eye on their infants to detect jaundice.

      If you notice your baby’s skin or eyes looking yellow you should contact your peadiatrician to see if significant jaundice is present.

      The seriousness of the jaundice will vary based on how many hours old your child is and the presence of other medical conditions.

      Treatments
      In mild or moderate levels of jaundice, by 1 to 2 weeks of age the baby will take care of the excess bilirubin on its own. For high levels of jaundice, phototherapy — treatment with a special light that helps rid the body of the bilirubin by altering it or making it easier for your baby's liver to get rid of it — may be used.

      More frequent feedings of breast milk or supplementing with formula to help infants pass the bilirubin in their stools may also be recommended. In rare cases, a blood exchange may be required to give a baby fresh blood and remove the bilirubin.

      If your baby develops jaundice that seems to be from breast milk, your doctor may ask you to temporarily stop breastfeeding. During this time, you can pump your breasts so you can keep producing breast milk and you can start nursing again once the condition has cleared.

      If the amount of bilirubin is high, your baby may be readmitted to the hospital for treatment. Once the bilirubin level drops and the treatment is stopped, it is unlikely that treatment for jaundice will need to be restarted.


      Happy Sharing and Reading! Hope this benefit some of you!

      :love:

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: Unity Primary

      Hi,


      My gal just got into Pri 1 for next year through Phase 2C plus balloting. Really Thank God to let my gal got into this school, the school is just a block away. 🙏
      She will be having her Orientation on 24 Oct 2009, 9am. I heard from friends that they will be assessments to stream the children to different classes according to their performance of the assessments. Most likely test on English and Maths???

      Any parents have any ideas? :idea:

      posted in Primary Schools - Parent Networking Groups
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • Neonatal and Confinement

      Hi Chief, Mummies and Daddies,


      I am back, and with my new family member, Shanice (10 days old). Currently doing my confinement at home now.

      Shanice has Neonatal Jaundice of 9.8 (Serum Bilirubin level), discovered when she is 3 day old. She did a day of Phototherapy in Hospital. They discharged her with me together on Day 4 but with level of 11.1 (Serum Bilirubin level). Suppose to do sunbathing when at home, but the weather was either cloudy or raining. When we went back for checkup, 6th day old, her level raised up to 17. We were very worry at tat time...

      Luckily the Peadiatrician sent us back with arrangement with Home Phototherapy Company to set up a phototherapy set at home and undergo phototherapy for 2 days. As I am a Peadiatric nurse before, I roughly know what to do. But as a newborn mum, worry for her bb..... Currently the reading level dropped to 10. (Dun need any more treatment once the reading has gone down).

      Initlally, I took confinement food without wine, herbs, chicken( due to C sect)... but I took little bit of ginger...(equals to not much food to eat) then after Shanice's blood test reading gone up, I dun dare to take any. Replaced it with pepper. (So called to have the same effect of getting rid of the wind. ) Somehow my body aching started. Peadiatrician told me to play safe, no ginger, herbs, alcohol for 4 weeks.... (hmm... then might as well I don't do confinement.) 😢

      After doing much researches from books and reliable website and consulting from experience breastfeeding mums, I decided to start taking little ginger after 12 days (To play safe), wine and herbs.


      Mummy can share your traditional confinement with me.... [/img][/url]

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: All About Dyslexia

      cocoa:
      Hi,


      Can anyone advise/share? How to differentiate kid is a slow learner or has learning difficulties like dyslexia?

      Thanks.
      Hi Cocoa,

      If you have read thru this whole topic about Dyslexia, all the mums are giving good advices and websites to find out and identify about Dyslexia.

      Go to specialist to get diagnose by them if there is a chance that you or school teacher suspect your kid is having this problem. If result is negative, you will be relief. It's best to discover early.

      - Dyslexia is difficulty in learning to read.
      - Dyslexia can be related to brain injury, hereditary, or hormonal influences.
      - Letter and number reversals are a common warning sign of dyslexia.
      - Diagnosis of dyslexia involves reviewing the child's processing of information from seeing, hearing, and participating in activities.
      - Treatment of dyslexia ideally involves planning between the parent(s) and the teachers.

      Anyway, I personally felt Dyslexia children are very talented. They have their right sided brain trained to overcome with their weakness.

      I have a friend who's son has Dyslexia, send him to DAS twice a week, attending primary school as per normal, and getting private tutor to guide whatever subjects that the boy is weak in. Must find a very patient tutor of course. So far the boy is doing very well, friendly and chatty. Just need help in academic. Hmm.... Most of the children also need help academically.

      posted in Special Needs & Learning Difficulties
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: All About Pregnancy

      RRMummy:
      jenniferjoey:

      Any confinement nanny to intro? or do I need? Now staying without in-laws and parents, wonder if they will come over and help after I give birth. Moreover my hubby is so blurr person, dun dare to ask him to cook or clean the house for me... Scare in the end I need to do all by myself. I most likely will be having a Cesearan again. May get postnatal blue... :faint:


      Hi jenniferjoey, sorry I have no good ones to recommend. In fact the one I got for my first confinement was horrible and she left after 1 week... well that's another story.. After that my auntie helped out.

      I think it is best to have someone to backup, either confinement nanny or family elders. It is said that best to come with minimal contact with water (except for those boiled with the special herbs..)to avoid rheumatism at old age, so with help you can minimize all the washing, cleaning.. not to mention get enough rest and minimal heavy lifting, laundry etc etc...

      My mum said that because my previous confinement did not do well, so I need to do a good one this time, so that I won't keep getting sick till I old.
      But how to.... 😢

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: Vomitted, murmur and Hole in the Heart

      Hi Chief,


      It's nothing at all, actually with a word or a sentence that can bring comforts or helps to people, in return bring joy back to people who offers. Now I m SAHM, this is the maximum I can do with all my knowledge and with the help of websites and my reference books. I really feel bad that I can't help her much more. Suddenly miss my job... 😢

      ChiefKiasu:
      jenniferjoey:

      ...If you do need helps /medical advices / any doubts that you are uncertain, you can email me at <jenniferjoey>, you are not alone, you can bring up your queries/complaints/anything to everyone here....

      Hi jenniferjoey, I'm totally impressed by your offer to help despite your delicate condition. Says volumes about the breadth of your heart. Thank you.

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: All About Pregnancy

      Huh will fade off?? Hmm... Should scan all. but dun know why the Gynae forget to give me the 4th month's ultrasound pics. 😢 too late to ask as he never print out.


      My girl every week will ask when we going to see Gynae, She has 4 motives to keep going. 1. She likes to play with the water dispenser in the clinic, always pretend she wants to fetch some water for me so that I won't be thirsty. 2. She loves to see the growth of the bb so that she can reports to her grandparents and school about the progress. 3. She will reports to me how many new fishes in the fish tank at the clinic. 4. Lastly and the main motive, she get a pack of rebena sweets from the Gynae.

      Also dun know why the Gynae sees her also very happy. (He delivered my girl) So I told my girl this is the doctor who cut mummy's tummy up to get you out and beat your backside when you are borned, she asked 'is it true?' I told her to ask the Gynae but she dun dare. :lol:

      Sometimes it helps alot when I explained to my girl the whole process of delivery (Both natural and Cesearan) with Discovery Channel and library books. She loves to read my pregnancy books I borrow.

      Any confinement nanny to intro? or do I need? Now staying without in-laws and parents, wonder if they will come over and help after I give birth. Moreover my hubby is so blurr person, dun dare to ask him to cook or clean the house for me... Scare in the end I need to do all by myself. I most likely will be having a Cesearan again. May get postnatal blue... :faint:


      ChiefKiasu:
      Each time we went for ultrascan, my daughter would be spotted sucking her thumb. Really funny. I still have the scans with me - just remember to scan them before they fade away.

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: Vomitted, murmur and Hole in the Heart

      Hi janice_0950,


      You seem to be very stress out already, is it your child/newborn suffering from this?

      For Hole in the heart, can mean Atrial Septal Defect (ASD) and Ventricular Septal Defect (VSD). They varies from tiny defects, of pinhole size, to huge defects.

      I found this website describe about ASD & VSD quite well with diagrams. Do take a look for better understanding.

      http://www.daviddarling.info/encyclopedia/H/hole_in_the_heart.html#symptoms

      Have you just found out about this defects by GP or Specialist? Please get to see a specialist asap and get all the examinations like Chest Xrays, Electrocardiogram(ECG) and so on done. If surgery/procedure is needed, get it done as early as possible unless it's neonate which other complications may be taken into consideration. Further delay may cause more complications. Suggest you go SGH or NUH if you haven't have anywhere to go yet.

      For vomiting may or may not be related to the defects of the heart must be aware of the contents, colours and smell of the vomitus and diarrhoea. Take down the number of times, description and the amount if possible. Must not let your child get dehydrated. Most likely needed to be hospitalised for all the symptoms given.

      If you do need helps /medical advices / any doubts that you are uncertain, you can email me at <jenniferjoey>, you are not alone, you can bring up your queries/complaints/anything to everyone here.

      You take very good care of your own health too. Mum and dad must be strong, your child needs you to be there. 🙏 Will keep you in our prayers. God bless.

      janice_0950:
      Hello all mommies here.............


      Did anyone come acroos these?
      Heart Murmur
      Hole in the Heart

      Easy vomit & Diahorrea
      .........:(

      please ............. can tell me more.\\

      MAKE ME REALLY STRESSFUL........FOR ABOVE ALL THESE.
      ~~~~AFTER I DISCOVERED THESE RECENTLY ~~~~~
      AND I HAVE CHANGED MY MIND.

      THANK YOU!
      HEALTH STILL IMPORTANT........
      NO MATTER WHAT.......RIGHT?

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: All About Pregnancy

      Hi Chief, RRMummy and the rest of my supporters,


      Really thanks you all so much for your supports and encouragements, if not staying at home all the time and feeling you have no where to go for the last four months is terrible. At times I felt bad to rely on my hubby and my whole family so much, sometimes I know they really purposely make trips down to help me or check on me. (Hope I won't suffer from pre/post natal depression)

      Hmm.. Although I used to be a pediatric nurse but I am now a patient at home... Who needs all my family(as my nurses) and you all(as my counsellors). I bought lots of Medical reference books at home for this pregnancy period to read thru and prepare myself to be more knowledgeable (If I can) when I go back to work. But somehow everytimes when I open up to read, I will fall asleep after the first page... (Perhaps I can read every night so that my hubby can shorten or escape from massaging me to sleep).

      If I ever sound harsh or too longwinded when I replied in the forum, do forgive me. Hee... Due to my former occupation, we are not allow to forget any details which will benefit or save our 'customers'. 😉

      As for my craving, it seems less aggressive than last few months. Maybe I give up... Hee... My girl did help me to nag and order food from daddy. If my hubby never comes back with the food I wants, she will scold him, but I somehow felt bad for her to scold her dad. (Disrespecting him mah)

      My hubby did thanked me one day to have this 2nd child for us and sorry to make me suffer so much for him, he wished that I could transfer all the sufferings to him. Hmmm... Sound so sweet right! Imagine if our labour pain transfer 50% to our hubbies, firstly they may faint right away or have to take huge dose morphine, finally they won't dare to ask for 2nd child for the rest of their life. Haha... :lol: So funny.

      I went for ultrasound again last week 17th weeks, Gynae trying very hard to find whether it's a boy or girl, but my bb just don't want to show. Cover the xxx part with both legs tightly. When I went for scanfor my girl to check for sex also the same, she covered with her whole hand. So have to wait for another month...

      Any good confinement ladies to introduce to me? And what should I expect and provide for them when they are around? What's the market rate nowadays??? she don't need to look after or cook for my girl, my parents will look after.

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
    • RE: Lysine - improve food appetite?

      Hi Mums,


      For children taking Lysine with Vits, I strongly disagree. There's side effects for Lysine and with the Lysine contents still circulating inside your child's body while if they get sick and have to take other medication, with the mix of medication it may become toxin. For all medication beside pure vitamins, all have side effects, and we won't know it as the promoter won't state so much, and it's best after you buy the items, go thru the literature ( The description of the contents of the medication) inside the packaging, and go to reliable websites like the following to double confirm it's safe. (Adults/Elderlys also must be careful with their own medication)

      http://www.drugs.com/mtm/lysine.html
      http://medlineplus.gov/

      For Lysine, in hospital, we serve it to patients who are very very ill, such as renal, cancer, terminally ill patients etc.. who need medication to aids them to increase appetite and absorb more nutrients. It's more like a long term medication.

      For me, when my girl started to eat solid food, I never let her choose. Don't let her know that she has the right to choose. We of course must try the food and know how your child will react to individual or mixture of food. Except those food which may have high chance of allergies, which I won't serve them to her, untill I know her age she can start trying bit by bit.

      For the beginning she behaves like MLR's boy, don't take ice-cream, sweets, cold drinks, soft drinks or any other sweet stuffs. ( Partly because she has prolonged Bronchitis when she is about 2 plus, so lots of food which will alleviate her condition must avoid, we have to reemphasize to her what will happen to her if she take them). After a year she starts to understand, she loves and treats bittergourd and herbal tea like sweets, she eats most food which normal children dislike except spicy food...

      Hmm... The result of how your children react when seeing food depends on how to educate them, we must be firm for the beginning. Very Tough process, esp with so many eyes looking at us, especially the grandparents will be softhearted and force us to give up. :x I don't care how people see me. I am not forcing my girl to eat poison but something that will benefit to her for now and in her future. We are the one who teach our children how to see/face this world, how to react from different type of things, senarios, tastes, ... Luckily she takes oat cereal which her mum(Me) don't. (Yucks)Hee... But when she started to go to school she begins to know and love junk food. 😢

      Hmm.. being parents is like taking a PHD course from Multi-faculties which taking us more than a decade to graduate... So scary and stressful...

      posted in Health
      J
      jenniferjoey
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