In-law problems?

[buds]

Ya, Desserts I think for boys to even verbalize his thoughts/emotions like that is uber-sweet. Shows the connection with the mom. :love:

[Jennifer]

buds:

Were you expecting a different expression instead of the eye-rolling, Jennifer?

I open mind - no expectation. He's still young, maybe still attached to me. But, of course I am secretly happy that he thinks this way. No one knows the future DIL I will get.

I am not an easy person to live with, too many hard rules in the household.

[buds]

I asked cos I casually (scoff) told my girls the same thing. They are girls but also roll eyes. They know its a trap. A test. :evil: Of course, out front we declare no correct answers.. inside.. all mothers hope to hear model answers. :rotflmao:


:idea: Perhaps my girls roll their eyes because that topic was tested too many times. :rotflmao:

[Jennifer]

buds:

I asked cos I casually (scoff) told my girls the same thing. They are girls but also roll eyes. They know its a trap. A test. :evil: Of course, out front we declare no correct answers.. inside.. all mothers hope to hear model answers. :rotflmao:


:idea: Perhaps my girls roll their eyes because that topic was tested too many times. :rotflmao:

:rotflmao:

Mm, good idea to set traps now - training what are the model answers before they kena hantam by girlfriend(s)/boyfriend(s), wife/husband and mother-in-law or monster-in-law :rotflmao:

[Nebbermind]

buds:

You bad la, Nebbermind. :spank: Always so liddat wan..

Does it not sound like some disorder? :scratchhead:

[janet88]

after cny, we don't have to put up with 我是谁... :rotflmao:

[buds]

Nebbermind:

buds:

You bad la, Nebbermind. :spank: Always so liddat wan..

Does it not sound like some disorder? :scratchhead:

Yours?

Yah, of course!

Just that I haven't researched the correct term for it yet. :idea:

[Nebbermind]

buds:

Nebbermind:

[quote=\"buds\"]You bad la, Nebbermind. :spank: Always so liddat wan..

Does it not sound like some disorder? :scratchhead:

Yours?

Yah, of course!

Just that I haven't researched the correct term for it yet. :idea:[/quote]Oops! I forgot all about your MIL stories. :oops:

My wifey is the one with an abnormal MIL. :roll:

[buds]

Doh! :slapshead: I meant YOUR (always liddat) disorder.

[vinegar]

Jennifer:

buds:

Were you expecting a different expression instead of the eye-rolling, Jennifer?

I open mind - no expectation. He's still young, maybe still attached to me. But, of course I am secretly happy that he thinks this way. No one knows the future DIL I will get.

I am not an easy person to live with, too many hard rules in the household.

Your boy is so sweet.
To me,so long as he is happy,i am happy.I told my boy that i wanna him to be independent.i do not wanna him to turn up to be another mummy's boy.

A person who is too dependent,will face the pro to make judgement n decision,i see this trait from my DH.He has stayed wf his mum for the past 32yrs.He is very much relying to his parents,mentally,physically n financially.

It is good to hv close bond btw parents n children.But for this case,he lost his survival skills.As his wife,i find it difficult to support him.

Over-support,makes him more lazy n incapable to make decision.
Under-support,he'll run back to his mum for shelter.

His mum has also made him to be very male chauvinist.So it is not easy to influence him....he is a bit \"looks down\" at women.Once he found me msn wf my ex male colleague n he was furious.Since then, i cut off all the contacts with them.

I've strong characters.For the past few yrs,i've toned down a bit coz of my children. However,i really damn pissed off this time coz his mum seriously has turned our lives upside down.what's hurting me is he chose sacrifice us for his mum,for the sake to fulfill her attns, we've to cancel all our plans.