Club FTWM

[parentof3]

Hi FTWM for 20 years in civil service.


DS1 - Sec 1(12 yrs old dec baby)
DD2 - P5
DS3 - P3

[peapot]

Just wondering how many here really looked forward to go back to work every Monday? Many many yonks ago, I looked forward to work but now not anymore. Want to leave this industry but will need to suffer a huge pay cut to go into another industry and my household expenses does not allow that to happen. Its so frustrating…

[mummy of 2]

westmom:

One more reporting....been working all my life and now wishing to become tai tai....but need the money leh......so each time TOTO got big strike, I will buy..wistful thinking.

Same here...but lousy luck, never win anything

[kiddo]

peapot:

Just wondering how many here really looked forward to go back to work every Monday? Many many yonks ago, I looked forward to work but now not anymore. Want to leave this industry but will need to suffer a huge pay cut to go into another industry and my household expenses does not allow that to happen. Its so frustrating.....

PEAPOT ...

I want to sing with you..............

I WANT TO BREAK FREE :siam:
I WANT TO BREAK FREE :siam:

:celebrate: me too I need the money - mortgage n for bee bee etc etc

Money money money :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah:

[heyhoe]

I’m a FTWM to 3 kids, P2, K1 and N1.


Currently staying in a non-challenging job with lower pay. Scared to make a move cause here, can go home on the dot and no stress.

[Magdalene]

Hello,

Can I join this club?

I m a FTWM with a P1 girl and a 2 yrs 4 mths boy…
I juz got my long service award in my company like some of you here… but… I m like lost of direction!!
Keep having the thought of being a SAHM!! hee

[Magdalene]

peapot:

Just wondering how many here really looked forward to go back to work every Monday? Many many yonks ago, I looked forward to work but now not anymore. Want to leave this industry but will need to suffer a huge pay cut to go into another industry .....

I m feeling the same!!!

[Andaiz]

peapot:

Just wondering how many here really looked forward to go back to work every Monday? Many many yonks ago, I looked forward to work but now not anymore. Want to leave this industry but will need to suffer a huge pay cut to go into another industry and my household expenses does not allow that to happen. Its so frustrating.....

Heee, peapot, it's Tuesday today and I'm still recovering from the weekend.

One more FTWM reporting here...and in a similar dilemma. The mortgage doesn't allow me to stop work although I'd love to.

Mebbe just downgrade hoh...but property expensive whichever way you look at it! Sigh!

[daisyt]

Magdalene:

peapot:

Just wondering how many here really looked forward to go back to work every Monday? Many many yonks ago, I looked forward to work but now not anymore. Want to leave this industry but will need to suffer a huge pay cut to go into another industry .....

I m feeling the same!!!

Me tooooo ........
Looking forward for the days when dd is independent, then I can semi-retire, find a job I like and have many hobbies I am dreaming of .... Continue dreaming at the moment .....

[MMM]

Andaiz:

The mortgage doesn't allow me to stop work although I'd love to.

This sounds so familiar. :lol:

In our case, we did some refinancing to shorten the term and I think we need to work for another minimum 15 years - 20 years and we are completely clear off our mortage debts.

We also intend to keep our 5 yr old car for another 5 years so that we can save more $.

My wish is to stay healthy and be able to keep my job (hint : don't get retrenched), continue to do something that I enjoy, work with nice people and have work life balance for the next 15 -20 years.