2013 PSLE Discussions and Strategy

[clay569]

Taking kids out for ice kacang now… Literally chill…

[Nebbermind]

clay569:

Taking kids out for ice kacang now... Literally chill...

so late still can find ice kacang?

[Jennifer]

There were a few schools prospectus given to the P6.


NUSHigh
Haw Chong
NJC
SJI
River Valley newsletter

There is another round of sec sch booths in sch on next Monday.

What abt your child’s school?

[insider]

clay569:

But cheem...how to train?... We used to hold hands everywhere till this year, be it driving, outing etc.. Now he's shy about it. Let me find a chance to cross road with him tomorrow and see what happens

Basically is to build a solid foundation with your child and don't let unnecessary things get into your relationship with him.

concern2's contribution in the other thread bears the essence of how to 'train' indirectly too:

万物的成长不留痕迹，如水的妈妈，总能找到孩子的好处，不动声色的夸奖孩子，赞美孩子，口吐莲花，让孩子感觉自己是个英雄，充满了力量，下定决心一定要保护自己柔弱的父母，如此两个人的关系才能亲密无间。

反之，妈妈经常挑孩子的毛病，孩子的心越来越凉，越来越没信心，觉得自己是个笨蛋，觉得自己是个废物，只能越来越走下坡路。


Start from young and we all reap what we sow...

PS:
I know my elder son is full of gratitude towards me for not 嫌弃ing he more '苯' when he couldn't perform academically when young and for my unwavering faith in him that he will grow up fine and well (that he indeed did).

[clay569]

Nebbermind:

clay569:

Taking kids out for ice kacang now... Literally chill...

so late still can find ice kacang?

Got.... Xin wang... Ended up we had all sort of food but ice kacang...

Edit: xw not really ice kacang...ice mountain...

[clay569]

insider:

clay569:

But cheem...how to train?... We used to hold hands everywhere till this year, be it driving, outing etc.. Now he's shy about it. Let me find a chance to cross road with him tomorrow and see what happens

Basically is to build a solid foundation with your child and don't let unnecessary things get into your relationship with him.

concern2's contribution in the other thread bears the essence of how to 'train' indirectly too:

万物的成长不留痕迹，如水的妈妈，总能找到孩子的好处，不动声色的夸奖孩子，赞美孩子，口吐莲花，让孩子感觉自己是个英雄，充满了力量，下定决心一定要保护自己柔弱的父母，如此两个人的关系才能亲密无间。

反之，妈妈经常挑孩子的毛病，孩子的心越来越凉，越来越没信心，觉得自己是个笨蛋，觉得自己是个废物，只能越来越走下坡路。


Start from young and we all reap what we sow...

PS:
I know my elder son is full of gratitude towards me for not 嫌弃ing he more '苯' when he couldn't perform academically when young and for my unwavering faith in him that he will grow up fine and well (that he indeed did).

Ohhh! Wise words! Thanks for sharing!!

[clay569]

insider:

clay569:

But cheem...how to train?... We used to hold hands everywhere till this year, be it driving, outing etc.. Now he's shy about it. Let me find a chance to cross road with him tomorrow and see what happens

Basically is to build a solid foundation with your child and don't let unnecessary things get into your relationship with him.

concern2's contribution in the other thread bears the essence of how to 'train' indirectly too:

万物的成长不留痕迹，如水的妈妈，总能找到孩子的好处，不动声色的夸奖孩子，赞美孩子，口吐莲花，让孩子感觉自己是个英雄，充满了力量，下定决心一定要保护自己柔弱的父母，如此两个人的关系才能亲密无间。

反之，妈妈经常挑孩子的毛病，孩子的心越来越凉，越来越没信心，觉得自己是个笨蛋，觉得自己是个废物，只能越来越走下坡路。


Start from young and we all reap what we sow...

PS:
I know my elder son is full of gratitude towards me for not 嫌弃ing he more '苯' when he couldn't perform academically when young and for my unwavering faith in him that he will grow up fine and well (that he indeed did).

Ohhh! Wise words! Thanks for sharing!!

[clay569]

Goodluck8:

Including me too!

:grphug:

[Nebbermind]

clay569:

Nebbermind:

[quote=\"clay569\"]Taking kids out for ice kacang now... Literally chill...

so late still can find ice kacang?

Got.... Xin wang... Ended up we had all sort of food but ice kacang...

Edit: xw not really ice kacang...ice mountain...[/quote]I see. Just realised they have many branches opening up to 2am!

[clay569]

Nebbermind:

I see. Just realised they have many branches opening up to 2am!

Go! Go! Quick! One more hr!