How do you deal with arrogant/how lian people around you?

[fussyMummy]

Hi,


Sometimes is not we cant afford, just then most of the time is not neccessary....

I never enroll my DD to any tuition or any enrichment lessons, as seriously I really dont have the time to bring and fetch her. And her exam result is pretty good, from P1-13 to P4-1 this year (oh, I am bragging )

For those people who like to bragging around, what I can do just smile and ignore , sighs.... :stupid:

[tankee]

wow congrats ! fussymummy

[Blobbi]

fussyMummy:

Hi,


Sometimes is not we cant afford, just then most of the time is not neccessary....

I never enroll my DD to any tuition or any enrichment lessons, as seriously I really dont have the time to bring and fetch her. And her exam result is pretty good, from P1-13 to P4-1 this year (oh, I am bragging )

For those people who like to bragging around, what I can do just smile and ignore , sighs.... :stupid:

Congratulations to dd and you, fussyMummy!

[fussyMummy]

Hi,


Thank you thank you

Er...give me a minutes...

You know, my DD exam result very good leh... no need any tuition also sOoooo good leh....

LOL.... BRAGGING!!!!

:celebrate:

[Blobbi]

Trying to distill my thoughts here - there is a difference between sharing good news and bragging.


I love good news! Good news makes me feel happy for the person, and is inspirational.

Bragging is something else. It's when someone tries to make you feel small, eg, \"I'm richer/better/more gorgeous than you. My kids are more genius/self-motivated/mature/do their assessment books more willingly than yours.

They do this in various guises, macam their victims are stupid like that, so they need to keep reminding you of your inferior existence (vis a vis their superior one). The good thing is, they're usually quite famous, ie, everybody has been victimised by them at one point or anpther. So to all braggarts, enough already. Everybody can see through your ruse. You don't have to make others feel small just so you feel adequate. Talk to the mirror if you have to, but give others a break.

[Blobbi]

fussyMummy:

Hi,


Thank you thank you

Er...give me a minutes...

You know, my DD exam result very good leh... no need any tuition also sOoooo good leh....

LOL.... BRAGGING!!!!

:celebrate:

Hahaha, you sound like you need a lot more practice in the bragging department, lol!

[fussyMummy]

Blobbi:

Hahaha, you sound like you need a lot more practice in the bragging department, lol!

:shock: :stupid:

LOL

Still need more practice on it....failure leh...

[autumnbronze]

Blobbi:

Trying to distill my thoughts here - there is a difference between sharing good news and bragging.


I love good news! Good news makes me feel happy for the person, and is inspirational.

Bragging is something else. It's when someone tries to make you feel small, eg, \"I'm richer/better/more gorgeous than you. My kids are more genius/self-motivated/mature/do their assessment books more willingly than yours.

They do this in various guises, macam their victims are stupid like that, so they need to keep reminding you of your inferior existence (vis a vis their superior one). The good thing is, they're usually quite famous, ie, everybody has been victimised by them at one point or anpther. So to all braggarts, enough already. Everybody can see through your ruse. You don't have to make others feel small just so you feel adequate. Talk to the mirror if you have to, but give others a break.

:goodpost: Blobbi and I agree with what you've mentioned ...

[ava]

I thing all u whiners should go back and read thru what yourselves wrote for this thread.


U guys r all so shallow.

U can accept "bragging" from a close friend, but not when it comes out from a stranger or someone you don’t like.

[autumnbronze]

ava:

I thing all u whiners should go back and read thru what yourselves wrote for this thread.


U guys r all so shallow.

U can accept \"bragging\" from a close friend, but not when it comes out from a stranger or someone you don't like.

Ava dear,

I see that you are new.

Would you please introduce yourself over at the Newbie thread??

Also, may I suggest that YOU read through the whole of 9 pages of this topic before making any kind of judgement?? After all, you barely logged on, like just maybe a few mins ago I believe??

TIA