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    Spouse or Kids? Which comes first?

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    • B Offline
      BlurBee
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      winth:
      buds:

      As for winth, knowing her... i dun honestly think she'd have

      time to put on even half the lingerie. :roll: Cos they'd both
      be frenching one another all the way to the hotel door and
      then stripped down naked by the time they close the door.
      Dun think they'd even make it to the bed! :!:

      Perhaps... :idea: ... doin' it standing at the wall behind the door? :evil:

      No kiddies leh.. adventure a bit, right?

      :!: what the...????

      :faint: OMG....

      :rotflmao:
      Like some drama :evil:

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        autumnbronze
        last edited by

        BlurBee:
        autumnbronze:


        Aiyoh BlurBee ....

        I didn't buy it leh ....

        Its a 'freebie' ....

        From the net :!: πŸ˜‰

        :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

        Ps ... all done in jest and to inject some fun ...

        Sorri, sorri. Me blur lah. :rotflmao:

        No not blur, my friend ... but v cute πŸ˜„ πŸ˜„

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          3Boys
          last edited by

          Take a break from the negativity......


          With VD coming up, remember to spend some special time cloistered with your better half. :love:

          No matter what, DW comes first, no negotiation!

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            buds
            last edited by

            Tell that to my hubs so he'll stop putting his face into the baby's cheeks.

            I'm the half ya know... :rant: Baby's the one-third nia. Cheh. :roll:
            I kena blind-sided liao. 😒

            I open door for him when he gets back and he greets baby first. πŸ˜›
            Kiss baby first! :rant: Ask how baby's day was first! 😒 And also ask
            if baby has eaten first or SLEPT WELL! Wuaaah! 😒 Where got VD liddat..

            I don't sleep well don't count meh. Cheh.

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              sleepy
              last edited by

              buds:
              Tell that to my hubs so he'll stop putting his face into the baby's cheeks.

              I'm the half ya know... :rant: Baby's the one-third nia. Cheh. :roll:
              I kena blind-sided liao. 😒

              I open door for him when he gets back and he greets baby first. πŸ˜›
              Kiss baby first! :rant: Ask how baby's day was first! 😒 And also ask
              if baby has eaten first or SLEPT WELL! Wuaaah! 😒 Where got VD liddat..

              I don't sleep well don't count meh. Cheh.
              :rotflmao:

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                sleepy
                last edited by

                I asked dh whether we're celebrating this valentine day. He answered wthin 0.0001 seconds a firm 'NO'


                Chey, I predicted that answer. Ask intentionally so that I have an excuse to poke his rib :cheeky:

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                  janet88
                  last edited by

                  I casually mentioned that Valentine’s Day is coming. He just gave me that stone expression.

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                    Happy Mama
                    last edited by

                    We celebrate our wedding anniversaries and valentines day (ocassionally) all with our DD... So what do you think? Child or DH comes first?


                    My take is to strike a balance. All are equally important. Afterall, we are one FAMILY... πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜„

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                      schweppes
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                      I think we stopped celebrating VD on the actual day for as long as i can remember, in fact ever since the kids came along. Sometimes, it's difficult to go out on the actual day or in the evenings. More so for us as we don't have a helper to rely on (in fact, hv been maidless all along) and difficult to ask parents/ILs to babysit.


                      Still, the thing is to work around the situation. So, whether it's VD or wedding anniversary, we will find time on one of the weekday instead. Need not be the actual day. We'll try and take a day or half a day off and just chillax.

                      This year's VD will be celebrated a week later. We're going for the Eagles Concert. WooHoo!! Really looking forward to that!! :dancing: :dancing:

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                        schweppes
                        last edited by

                        Happy Mama:
                        We celebrate our wedding anniversaries and valentines day (ocassionally) all with our DD... So what do you think? Child or DH comes first?


                        My take is to strike a balance. All are equally important. Afterall, we are one FAMILY... πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜„
                        :hi5:

                        I tell my family that they have to share me as there's only one of me. So, depending on circumstance or situation, it's kids first and sometimes, dh first. And of course, in some other situations, then it's me come first. Must take care of ourselves too, if not cannot take care of the others πŸ˜‰

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