On Reading

[metz]

I just want to stress again that synthetic phonics is only another tool to learning to read. My two kids actually started off as sight readers. Phonics merely helped escalate their reading abilities. For parents, if you hope to raise life-long readers (and not just kids who can read words), please heed the following -


Reading is a life skill - some of it can be overtly instructed but a large part of creating a life-long reader is to build motivation. If he is looking away - he's clearly telling you that he's uninterested. There is no motivation there. Motivation is a strange thing - the more you try to force it, the less it's going to happen. You have to engage your son in things that interest him (and you!) and layer in experiences of words. I have often seen parents who in their fervour to focus on the reading, have created a struggle that absolutely kills any enjoyment of reading - that sort of negative association with reading is very very hard to undo. Even as you simply talk about the book you read, the signs on the street, the movie posters you see, you are exposing your son to the word of print – he is learning to read. He is learning that in order for him to make more sense of the world, he needs to understand those squiggles that mommy is ‘reading’. And every child is inherently motivated to make sense of the world – every child, given the exposure to print and books, with a little direct instruction, will want to read and will eventually read.

- Rina Ong, Julia Gabriel Centre for Learning

I hope no parents would rush into teaching their kids to read by using synthetic phonics and be disappointed when it doesn't work for their kids, especially the very young ones. As what Rina mentioned above, reading is more than just the words.

[smurf]

my boy went to borrow a book from his sch library, he chose the easiest book, 2 words title, and fewpages only. each page only 1 sentence, and 1 sentence only 3-4 words.


he simply dun like to read even though he can recognize words.:(

[metz]

smurf:

my boy went to borrow a book from his sch library, he chose the easiest book, 2 words title, and fewpages only. each page only 1 sentence, and 1 sentence only 3-4 words.


he simply dun like to read even though he can recognize words.:(

Hi smurf,

This is a fairly common happening nowadays. A number of parents face the same problem with their kids, i.e the kid can read/recognize words but doesn't enjoy reading.

Anyway, I have PMed you more on this.

[smurf]

Thanks Chamonix for your encouragment and PM. much appreciated. sometimes just dunno what to do, he just refuses to read. or should I say, lazy to read.

[mummy of 2]

chamonix:

This is a fairly common happening nowadays. A number of parents face the same problem with their kids, i.e the kid can read/recognize words but doesn't enjoy reading.

I have the opposite problem. My kids are interested in reading but cana't recognise the words. DS1 is reading from memory

Am trying to use phonics and readers to help them get started on the path of independent reading.

[metz]

smurf:

Thanks Chamonix for your encouragment and PM. much appreciated. sometimes just dunno what to do, he just refuses to read. or should I say, lazy to read.

Hi smurf,

Have faith in yourself and your son, perserve on and you'll see results.

[metz]

mummy of 2:

chamonix:

This is a fairly common happening nowadays. A number of parents face the same problem with their kids, i.e the kid can read/recognize words but doesn't enjoy reading.

I have the opposite problem. My kids are interested in reading but cana't recognise the words. DS1 is reading from memory

Am trying to use phonics and readers to help them get started on the path of independent reading.

Hi mummy of 2,

Yours is not a problem. Try reading the first forum link I have provided in the first post. There was some sharing on reading from memory.

Hope your wish will come true soon. :celebrate:

[ChiefKiasu]

chamonix:

... PS : I hope CKS won't mind me pasting links to other forums here.

As long as they are relevant to the discussion and not some marketing mumbo-jumbo, URLs to other sites are perfectly fine with us. Post away :). SingaporeMotherhood is a great site with lots of knowledgeable mummies too.

[smurf]

chamonix:

Hi smurf,

Have faith in yourself and your son, perserve on and you'll see results.

I try...but i find that his attention span is rather short...

[jedamum]

smurf,

your son knows how to read, but may not enjoy reading cos he may not understand what he is reading. my ds1 knows how to read after mastering the sightwords, his level of understanding of what he read did not catch up until end of K2. it was only after introducing Geronimo Stilton in P1 that capture his attention. he still does not read volunterily, i just have to nag at him to get started and hope that the storyline can sustain his interest.
i believe that some kids just doesnt like to read…we as parents just have to try harder to get them to at least read a bit.