Any parents of gifted children here ?

[kiasulang]

EN:

Hi Kiasulang


Curious. Before identification, do you notice yr ds is developing faster than an average children or was it pointed out to you that he is different? Second question is on swimming. Read in another thread, your ds swims every morning & early identification of talent. Is your ds talent spotted by school or it's you as parent who realize it. Or did yr ds swim for leisure?

Hi EN

Glad to share with you here
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?p=12360#12360

[kiasulang]

tamarind:

kiasulang:

My niece is a Mensan but she did not qualified for GEP. She has the above charateristics I mentioned. From young till now, she does not need to be told to do her work. My son is both a Mensan and GEPper. He too has the same characteristics.


I believe most GEP students are high ability students who excel in English or Math, or both. GEP branch agreed that their GEP screening test are not IQ test. Likewise, gifted students who do well in IQ test are not accepted in GEP because some of them might not be very academically inclined either on Math or English.

These GEP students might not achieve high T-score in PSLE because some of them is weak in MT where the GEP selection is based on Math and English

How do we know whether our children are gifted? Do we based on IQ test or based on GEP selection test? Most importantly, we must believe in our children because all children are special to their parents.

kiasulang,
For your information, there is a thread about the GEP.

All about GEP
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?t=30&start=120


This thread is mainly for parents of young children who are exceptionally bright, and whose parents believe that they are gifted, or suspect that they may be gifted :mrgreen: This thread is for young children who have not taken the GEP. Some parents may aspire to develop their kids so that they can enter the GEP, some parents may not think that the GEP is a good program. All are welcome.

I have written earlier that my opinion is that the GEP test is not a reliable selection process for identifying gifted children. This is because many parents send their kids to GEP preparatory schools to be trained so that they can get into the GEP. The fact that many kids do get into the GEP by training, shows that the GEP selection process is flawed. A child is born gifted, he/she cannot be trained. If a truly gifted child has not been \"trained\", because the parents cannot afford GEP preparatory school or even provide learning resources at home, then he/she may not get into the GEP. But that does not mean that he/she is not gifted.

We should leave the discussion about the GEP in the \"All about GEP\" thread. Do share with us how you develop your kids before they enter primary school ? Any special development scheme ?

Thanks Tamarind

I'm actually responding to EN's quote

[en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg]

Hi Kiasulang


Thanks for replying my queries. I have read through the other thread. I'm sure you are able to share the start of your ds development in this thread.

I have also read through Primary School in Novena & is following through the thread there as well as I am looking around to see if there are any new schools that are suitable for him.

[en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg]

Kiasulang wrote [quote]Neither did I realize my elder son's gift myself nor my family members. We thought he was just active and talkative. His gift was discovered by his principal of his CC. She thought that my son might be gifted and asked whether do we want to have him assessed. We agreed and followed her recommendation.[/quote]
I pull this out from the other thread, otherwise, the administrator might merge the thread as it seems duplicate.

Why did the CC principal asked him to be assessed?

[kiasulang]

EN:

Kiasulang wrote [quote]Neither did I realize my elder son's gift myself nor my family members. We thought he was just active and talkative. His gift was discovered by his principal of his CC. She thought that my son might be gifted and asked whether do we want to have him assessed. We agreed and followed her recommendation.

I pull this out from the other thread, otherwise, the administrator might merge the thread as it seems duplicate.

Why did the CC principal asked him to be assessed?[/quote]We did not ask as we were curious ourselves. I'm glad we did. This certainly helps me to find out more about him.

[Emelyn]

kiasulang:

We did not ask as we were curious ourselves. I'm glad we did. This certainly helps me to find out more about him.

How & where did you get him assessed ?

[en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg]

kiasulang wrote [quote]I'm glad we did. This certainly helps me to find out more about him.[/quote]
Is there any general advise given based on the assessment that you are able to share for the benefits of other parents in this thread?

Anything on sensitivities that were advised?

[kiasulang]

Emelyn:

kiasulang:

We did not ask as we were curious ourselves. I'm glad we did. This certainly helps me to find out more about him.

How & where did you get him assessed ?

Hi Emelyn

FYI

1.http://www.moe.gov.sg/education/programmes/gifted-education-programme/faq/exceptionally-gifted/

2.http://www.singaporepsychologicalsociety.org/

[kiasulang]

EN:

kiasulang wrote [quote]I'm glad we did. This certainly helps me to find out more about him.

Is there any general advise given based on the assessment that you are able to share for the benefits of other parents in this thread?

Anything on sensitivities that were advised?[/quote]We were advised to let my son learn music and arts. We tried but he is not keen. We are also advised not to advertise his gift. Until now, except for immediate family members, even my close friends are not aware.

[tamarind]

kiasulang:

We were advised to let my son learn music and arts. We tried but he is not keen.

So your son is not attending any music lessons now ?