All About Full-Time Maids
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shine_fs, is your maid from Indonesia? Normally indo maids more conservative, I don’t think they dare to go without bras.
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carebear:
I will tell my maids starting from the day that i hire them that they are to dress modestly, ie no sleeveless tops, shorts must not be too short and no figure hugging clothes. So far no problem, cos maybe i also dress conservatively. Also they are not to talk to sir. If they need anything, they must ask me first.
I wonder if you are not ard, how can they don't talk to sir, if they have questions?
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peapot:
shine_fs, is your maid from Indonesia? Normally indo maids more conservative, I don't think they dare to go without bras.
sad thing is yes, she is from Indonesia.....think she is too young to know the \"danger\"......hahahah. She's ONLY 23 yrs old.
She don't wear bra to sleep de...that I can understand. But not wearing it in the morning!!!! that I can't stand.
Have to educate her lor.... -
If that’s the case, maybe we should even list "must wear bras at home" as one of the houserule. Can’t imagine even things like that also must list!! Maids!!!
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peapot:
If that's the case, maybe we should even list \"must wear bras at home\" as one of the houserule. Can't imagine even things like that also must list!! Maids!!!
Hahaha....I like your suggestion..... :celebrate: -
shine_fs:
:!: :!: wah, like dat, I think also must stipulate what type of bra....lacy type also fail right? it's sad when we have to impose such 'rules' but then it's for their safety also.peapot:
shine_fs, is your maid from Indonesia? Normally indo maids more conservative, I don't think they dare to go without bras.
sad thing is yes, she is from Indonesia.....think she is too young to know the \"danger\"......hahahah. She's ONLY 23 yrs old.
She don't wear bra to sleep de...that I can understand. But not wearing it in the morning!!!! that I can't stand.
Have to educate her lor....
Hmmm, if need to buy uniform for them, better include what's underneath.
Actually I cannot understand the logic. Employers pay maid salary, food, etc; and it seems in many cases their clothings even (I recall having to buy undies for my ex-maid once). I cannot imagine if MY employer got to pay for all these for me.
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shine_fs:
This is one of the major issue that caused my MIL high blood pressure when my previous maid did that. At that time, yougest BIL was unmarried, MIL was super alert .... :lol:peapot:
shine_fs, is your maid from Indonesia? Normally indo maids more conservative, I don't think they dare to go without bras.
sad thing is yes, she is from Indonesia.....think she is too young to know the \"danger\"......hahahah. She's ONLY 23 yrs old.
She don't wear bra to sleep de...that I can understand. But not wearing it in the morning!!!! that I can't stand.
Have to educate her lor.... -
autumnbronze:
This is one of the major issue that caused my MIL high blood pressure when my previous maid did that. At that time, yougest BIL was unmarried, MIL was super alert .... :lol:[/quote]Hahaha....if I say, I don't allow her to close door to sleep!!!!!shine_fs:
[quote=\"peapot\"]shine_fs, is your maid from Indonesia? Normally indo maids more conservative, I don't think they dare to go without bras.
sad thing is yes, she is from Indonesia.....think she is too young to know the \"danger\"......hahahah. She's ONLY 23 yrs old.
She don't wear bra to sleep de...that I can understand. But not wearing it in the morning!!!! that I can't stand.
Have to educate her lor.... -
shine_fs:
Hahaha....if I say, I don't allow her to close door to sleep!!!!![/quote]Liddat, a bit lack of privacy right? :roll:
This is one of the major issue that caused my MIL high blood pressure when my previous maid did that. At that time, yougest BIL was unmarried, MIL was super alert .... :lol:autumnbronze:
[quote=\"shine_fs\"]
sad thing is yes, she is from Indonesia.....think she is too young to know the \"danger\"......hahahah. She's ONLY 23 yrs old.
She don't wear bra to sleep de...that I can understand. But not wearing it in the morning!!!! that I can't stand.
Have to educate her lor.... -
Andaiz:
Liddat, a bit lack of privacy right? :roll:[/quote]Actually Andaiz, it is true that they have to be given some space and privacy ...
Hahaha....if I say, I don't allow her to close door to sleep!!!!!shine_fs:
[quote=\"autumnbronze\"]
This is one of the major issue that caused my MIL high blood pressure when my previous maid did that. At that time, yougest BIL was unmarried, MIL was super alert .... :lol:
For me, as long as she does not lock the door, its fine, cuz DS sleeps in the same room. I also make it a point to knock and wait for her to reply b4 I enter. I want her to feel that she has her own sanctuary that she can go to at the end of the door, albeit with limitations 
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