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    Neither borrowers nor lenders nor both be ....

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    • F Offline
      fussyMummy
      last edited by

      lovekidsverymuch:
      I agree with tree_nymph need to 1st check how good is the friend and for wat reason she needs the money... if both are affirmative and lending amount(losing amount) is not much like few hundreds then go ahead πŸ˜›

      A few hundreds still okay.. is few thousands...

      I am very θŠ‚ηΊ¦ person, as I am a single mother... cant imagin my saving just gone like that.... 😒

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        fussyMummy
        last edited by

        lovekidsverymuch:

        fussyMummy:

        I am very θŠ‚ηΊ¦ person

        No wonder she asked cause she knew u might surely have in ur savins πŸ˜›

        Hi lovekidsverymuch,

        Ya lor.. she is very sure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :stupid:

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          MMM
          last edited by

          Hi,


          I feel that as you said you are a single mum so you need to save money for rainy days.

          Just say you need the $ for your child’s education,etc…

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            corneyAmber
            last edited by

            MMM:
            Hi,


            I feel that as you said you are a single mum so you need to save money for rainy days.

            Just say you need the $ for your child's education,etc....
            I think this is the best reason so far. Tell her the truth that it is precisely because you are a single mum, all the more you need the money for your kid/s needs. If she is a true friend, she'd won't mind you telling her the truth.

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              fussyMummy
              last edited by

              MMM:
              Hi,


              I feel that as you said you are a single mum so you need to save money for rainy days.

              Just say you need the $ for your child's education,etc....
              Hi MMM,

              Ya, must save $ for rainy days... that is my principle...

              Maybe, prepare to lose a friendship...!?

              Then I bury myself inside KSP... haha..

              Thanks for all the kindsoul.. :love: πŸ˜‰

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                fussyMummy
                last edited by

                25hourmaid:


                I think this is the best reason so far. Tell her the truth that it is precisely because you are a single mum, all the more you need the money for your kid/s needs. If she is a true friend, she'd won't mind you telling her the truth.
                Hi 25hourmaid,

                She knew my status well.... her last sms.. please transfer the $ on this coming thursday..

                Never ask is it I agreed ???

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                  qms
                  last edited by

                  fussyMummy:
                  Maybe, prepare to lose a friendship...!?


                  Then I bury myself inside KSP... haha..
                  You won't be lonely losing this friend. We are all here ever ready to be your friends. :celebrate:

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                    MMM
                    last edited by

                    fussyMummy:
                    Never ask is it I agreed ???

                    My principle has always been there is no harm losing friends who are not worth keeping. We will make new ones along the way who are more sincere and really treat us well.

                    Maybe this is a good time to test your \"good\" friend.

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                      fussyMummy
                      last edited by

                      qms:


                      You won't be lonely losing this friend. We are all here ever ready to be your friends. :celebrate:
                      Thanks qms,

                      So touching.. :thankyou: :hugs:

                      and also thanks to the rest... πŸ™‚

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                        KSP
                        last edited by

                        auntieM:
                        KSP:

                        2 things can happen after you lend your friend $


                        1. He disappear or try to avoid you. End of friendship
                        2. Tell you he does not have $ to repay and the friendship turn sour from there.

                        This is too common in real life.

                        Can I please add a point...
                        3. Come up with another sob story soon enough to borrow somemore πŸ˜›

                        :rotflmao: this is a good one.

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